So the way things stand now both my SD's haven't returned to our house in over 3 weeks. I've only spoken to SD9 & apologized. She's a sweetie & thanked me & accepted my apology however I haven't seen her. Haven't spoken to SD13 even though I've contacted her a few times. My DH has seen them. Taken them to dinner, etc. my BD's have no interest in seeing them. They confided with my parents that SD13 makes them uncomfortable & she's mean. While I'm enjoying the peace we now have due to her absence I'm broken up that everyone's upset & my mother in law keeps asking me to reach out to her, to keep trying. DH stands his ground saying she's 13, we can't force her & to b patient. I wonder if her "I'm just not ready to talk"
Stance is more for show & attention than anything else. She has to know in her heart that she fucked up & while she refuses to talk she doesn't have to face that or try to make amends w my BD's & I.

How do I get through this and handle the guilt I feel?