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notsobad's picture

The video is long, about 7 mins of BM complaining (then another 10ish of the commentator talking, I didn't watch that part). Sadly, I bet most of us on here know this woman.

This is going on in the parking lot of a police station and she knows she's being filmed or she would be much, much worse I'm sure.
She's standing behind his car, with the children so that he can't leave.
Love the part where she tells the 3 year old that he can go ahead and scratch Daddy's car!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TcWvIsMEt20

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KittyKatMomma's picture

I've watched that video on CM-effing disgusting!!

That woman and her d@mn ratchet mother need some parenting classes.

I was shocked when they opened his car door and saw a child in the backseat then start asking the child "What's your name' What's your mommy's name" like how is that any of your business?!

And then she was going on and on about "Where did you get their haircut" he did answer her-shame she's too busy running her mouth to listen.

I really hope he turned that video over to police-and her and her d@mn mother got in trouble for the sh!T they pulled.

I showed this video to a cop in our town and he said if that happened in OUR precinct the mother and the ex would have been arrested.

notsobad's picture

I wish more Dads would tape BMs doing this. We hear stories like this aaaaallllll the time but to see and hear it, it has so much more impact.

HappilySelfish679's picture

Poor kids Sad but why didn't he just say bye to kids and leave right in the beginning ? Or was she blocking the car ? He should have just walked away then .

WTF...REALLY's picture

Sad, sad, sad.

She was looking for anything to get into a fight about.

Disneyfan's picture

Saw that hot mess yesterday on facebook.

I think all 3 women are asses. The BM and her mother were looking for a fight. The women who allowed dad to take her kid to the exchange is either a damn fool or a passive aggressive game player.

notsobad's picture

Well, the exchange was in the parking lot of a police station so I'm guessing that there have been altercations before this. Plus, Dad pulled out his camera and filmed the exchange so I would guess that he's been through this with her before and wanted to get her on film.

Did the mother of the other child know how bad BM is? Maybe, maybe not. Could be this isn't even a GF childs but maybe the child of friend? Kids have play dates all the time. We just don't know.

Disneyfan's picture

If the mother is the dad's GF, she has to know that there is bad blood between him, BM, and her mother. The exchange took place outside of a police station.

He tried his best to keep them from seeing the kid. As soon as they saw the kid, they really went off.

Based on posts here, it's common for SMs to try to keep their bio kids away from BM. It seems odd that mom would allow her kid to go to the exchange, but she wasn't there.

Disneyfan's picture

That's no excuse. She could have found another sitter. She could have gone to work later or left early.

Surely she knows the schedule. There's no way she doesn't know BM and her mother are two damn fools.

And that was controlled crazy.LOL. Those two nuts would have turned all the way up if they were not in front of a police station. They tried to control the crazy and manipulate him into doing something stupid.

lintini's picture

Wow. It's going to be a long road till 18 with this toxic BM and GBM. So many similarities and it echoed so many other posters complaints we hear on the forums as well. How many fights over clothing do we hear about weekly?

LikeMinded's picture

Yep, we have one of these and exposing her on Facebook to her friends was the only thing that *somewhat* calmed her down (well it stopped her from abducting SKIDS and hiding them every so often). I'm very happy he posted this to the world and that this woman is publicly humiliated. I hope this has the same affect on her as it did our crazy BM. My BD13 tapes everything...plus our drop off is at a gas station right under a surveillance camera.

still learning's picture

That was hard to watch. Those poor kids are going to be so messed up. I hope she loses her custodial status after this.

Glassslipper's picture

Hope she is proud of herself for messing up her kids.
The anger they feel at a mother who does this to their daddy lasts a lifetime!
Good example of BM using the children as a weapon

MJL2010's picture

Holy shit! Another crazy crazy BM. Omg. DH had a scene like this in a public drop off place, years ago. She called him a "fuckhead", a "cunt" and a "douchebag" in front of the twins, and then lied about it later (in her custody) when one of them said "fuckhead", telling them that she had called DH a "fathead" . I believe that this was the incident that got him an order of protection granted (he emailed and called his lawyer as soon as he got back) and changed procedure for their drop-offs. These women are so sick and have so little self-confidence. It is sad for them and at the same time infuriating.

kathc's picture

Wow. "you need to tell me what happened!"

He cut their hair. WTF. If she decided they needed haircuts she'd blame him that they need them.

I couldn't even watch all of it, I want to punch her in the throat. "you have no rights whatsoever"

Here's a man who wants to be in his childrens' lives, does things any father would do, she gives him shit for it.