Grannyd and I were saying on another blog how we are happy that the BM couldn't see what a good man they had let get away and how happy we were to have found that man.

DH and I were at SDs skids game and BM, who was also there, kept going on about how one of the players reminded her of DH when they first met. They were HS sweethearts. She had stories of DH as a teenager. The only one listening was ME! BM was desperately trying to get DH to reminisce about the old days and how young they were and so on. DH was concentrating on the game.

Get your popcorn!

SD (31, no kids, never married or lived with anyone, but has had serious relationships) has a new BF. We just met him this summer, they met on an online dating site and have been talking/emailing/facetiming dating for a while. He's 35-38ish, divorced (1-2 years?), 3 kids (son 9, daughter 5-6, daughter 3-4), and was brought up morman.

My FIL had a heart attack a couple of weeks ago. He is 77 years old and we were not sure he was going to make it. He ended up having a quadruple bypass and is doing very well.

We were all waiting to see if FIL is going to have to have emergency surgery or if they can stabilize him. He was getting IV drugs but was still in a considerable amount of pain. Surgery would have been dangerous at that point but there might not have been a choice. SD(30) has told BM what's happening but didn't have a long conversation with her.

DH and I have combined finances. We always have and for us it isn't a problem. I have recommended to others on here that they separate their fiances but for us, combined works.

My problem of late has been that SD told DH she was upset that DH and I say that "we" put her and SS through school.

SD has told DH that I have never made enough to support her and SS during school and that it was his money that supported her. That she wants me to stop telling people I supported her financially.