oh FFS
PigPen (who is not DH's son) is not happy at BioHo's house. Well...sorry and too bad. It's not like PigPen can move in with DH (and me). Then is NO way in Hades 'Ho is about to pay CS to DH!!! I need a drink.
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BioHo let PigPen move in with
BioHo let PigPen move in with us and have to pay DH?? Coooookies, have you been hitting the eggnog early, LOL?
Thank you, Sally! ~pours
Thank you, Sally! ~pours generous splash in coffee~
I don't believe 'Ho will EVER suggest PigPen move in with us (unless she could somehow convince DH to pay her...). DH commented that neither PigPen nor PrincASS is happy living at home with 'Ho. And I said "they haven't been happy living with 'Ho since Spawn started screaming". (Spawn is very spoiled and screams like a banshee, so they all STUPIDLY give the spoiled little sh!t whatever she wants to stop her screaming.)
And NO, 'Ho does NOT know who fathered PigPen. Too many to chose from. :sick:
The only responsibility DH
The only responsibility DH has to PigPen is because he loves the kid. DH raised PigPen from a pup (he also raised BioHo's firstborn from the age of 2). DH and 'Ho were separated. 'Ho, in typical ho fashion, slept with as many men as possible and ~GASP~ ended up preggers. 'Ho doesn't know who fathered PigPen - only that it was NOT DH. In a moment of pure stupidity and insanity (and because he missed his 2 biological children), DH forgave 'Ho because she promised to "never ever cheat again" :sick: and they got back together.
PigPen's father ~whoever that may be~ has never paid a dime in CS. PigPen has NO idea that DH is not his bio father. DH does not pay CS to 'Ho for PigPen either (court order). DH said when they were divorcing, 'Ho tried to not let PigPen come visit in order to "force" DH to pay CS. However, PigPen drove 'Ho so nuts pestering her, that she finally caved and let PigPen visit.
A couple of years ago, PigPen had so many clothes at our house that 'Ho called and asked DH to send them back home with PigPen. We looked and the kid had the chest of drawers stuffed FULL - he had SIX pairs of jeans in there (no wonder 'Ho wanted his clothes back!). Seems he had been bringing them over a little at a time in his backpack.
IMHO, I think that PigPen has it in his head that, if DH knows he's "miserable" at home, he can move in with us and not have to do anything but play video games.
Steptococis, yeah, poor kid.
Steptococis, yeah, poor kid. He's very fortunate that DH stepped up to be his dad. Here's a little more background.
'Ho has 5 kids - had her first at age 16. The kid was 2 when 'Ho and DH hooked up. 'Ho used the old "I'm on BC" and ended up preggers the first time they slept together. IOW, she saw a good, hardworking man and decided to go fishing for a daddy for her 2 yo. DH and 'Ho moved in together just before she pooped out SDstb19. DH and 'Ho fought constantly ('Ho LOVES arguing, then having makeup sex). DH was seriously considering moving out, got drunk, used a condom, it broke, 'Ho was preggers AGAIN. DH finally married her shortly before PrincASSstb16 was born. DH and 'Ho still fought all the time. 3x DH filed for divorce. The third time is when 'Ho got knocked up with PigPen. What finally ended their horrible relationship was when DH found out that 'Ho had drained their savings account (30K) flying some guy back and forth from NJ and putting him up in a hotel (guess she'd already slept with anyone willing in our area...). They split up. Guess what - 'Ho was pregnant AGAIN with Spawn8 (not DH's).
Here's a fun fact: I know the manager of the office where 'Ho works - I set up their computer system 18 years ago. 'Ho has NO idea I know her boss or that her boss tells me things. Like the fact that 'Ho has admitted she started cheating on DH when she was 3 months pregnant with SDstb19. That's right. They'd been together 3 months and she was already cheating. And she NEVER stopped. 'Ho cheated on DH the entire time they were together. Nice, huh?
Movie is right. A Ho'rror
Movie is right. A Ho'rror movie. :?
No Sally! SO's SS became
No Sally! SO's SS became Smeagol only after BM admitted that SO was not his biological father. "Son, SO chose to be your father. He's not your real father and now H2 is going to be your father too but your real father didn't want you." In one foul swoop the child was told his grandparents are not his and his father whom she left him with for a year is not his either.
I was heart broken for the child. Then he started coming to our house telling SO he's not his father. No warning, nothing. It was a ghastly mess and I still think to this day that child got the raw end of the deal from a bunch of self serving childish grown ups.
Sally, when PigPen finds out,
Sally, when PigPen finds out, it will NOT be from me. And I'm certain he will find out eventually. ALL of the adults know - 'Ho's sister, cousins, and parents; DH's brother (and brother's wife), mother, and grandmother. AND 'Ho's firstborn daughter who is 22 has know for 5-6 years. Don't know how she found out. That's waaaaaaay too many people to keep a secret of that magnitude. The kid will find out some day.
Ladies, I hate to be the
Ladies, I hate to be the bearer of bad news but I'll give it to you anyways. Jabba and SO were separated and living APART. She had a bf - the man she cheated on SO with. One day she decided she was going to New Zealand with him for work. She took her first born son and Chucky with their clothes and gave the kids to SO. She left for 5 months, then ran back with her tail between her legs. Got herself a flat 1km from SO and LEFT the boys with him for a further 5 months. Then found her H2 and only then took the boys back. SO AGREED to all of this. Why, you ask yourselves? Well what else was meant to happen to the child ...
I must add though SO's SS was not a bad child. He was a bit like Smeagol from LOTR. Split personalities and voices in his head when anxious.
aniki, have another coffee with some amaretto in it post reading this.
Sally, that topic is a very
Sally, that topic is a very big no no in our house. I am going to quote my man directly "Love, she told me she had changed and I believed her"
That translated for me in to "I was tired of looking after 2 problem children on my own, so I gave them back to BM." Maybe I am being unfair but I also think MIL weighed in. She got SO to sign a divorce settlement I vehemently fought. SO could have gotten joint residences and all he had to pay was 50% of school, uniforms and medical. Instead he pays R8000 per month for stuff all + extra for therapies.