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How many of you think your skids MIA or mostly MIA BM will try getting your skids for Mother's Day?

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Submitted by stepmama2one on Tue, 04/07/2015 - 10:41am

I will start. As in previous blogs you may be able to tell that BM is always MIA. Never wants anything to do with SD unless it is good for herself or makes herself feel or look better. I have a really big hunch that even though BM has been out of SD's life 95% of her life she will still be getting ahold of DH come Mother's Day expecting to be able to have her daughter.

When she doesn't get her way she will tell DH that he is hurting my SD and that he needs to think of my SD and not of himself. She will then tell DH that if he doesn't make SD go see her then she will be contacting the courts and filing paperwork to get custody of her child. I am going to wait until then and see what happens and I will see if my hunch is right.

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Submitted by Disneyfan on Tue, 04/07/2015 - 10:45am

That's rule number one in the MIA BM/ND play book. You just HAVE to play super mom or dad on Mother's and Father's day. It must also be done when there's a new girlfriend or boyfriend in the picture.

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Submitted by stepmama2one on Tue, 04/07/2015 - 11:08am

Agree!

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Submitted by Sweet T on Tue, 04/07/2015 - 11:05am

On the flip side my piece of shit ex husband who sees our son 2 weekends a month just asked me if I really wanted mother's day. {ardon me asshole I am the one raising him...yes I want mother's day.

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Submitted by classyNJ on Tue, 04/07/2015 - 11:12am

MOTY has had the kids ONCE for mothers day - last year. The only reason is that DH was working. He told her he was working so the kids should stay with you. She was NOT happy and actually asked what I was doing on mothers day. UMMMM ya moron - Im spending it with MY mother who Loves to have her children on mothers day. She had him drop them off at the GM and didn't get them until 5:00 for dinner.

This year? Baseball tourney - she will either show up to surprise SS12 (to show she is truly MOTY) or go out on the boat. Im guessing the later. I again will be with my favorite gal Smile

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Submitted by Tuff Noogies on Tue, 04/07/2015 - 11:13am

not sure what she'll do, i dont think she had any of them last year or the year before that.

my guess is she'll arrange something w/o anything being set in stone until it's over with. she doesnt want anyone to know or be able to confirm her whereabouts, so she my have her mom ask for yss to spend the day with her, and dumbass may show up for an unspecified length of time. we wont find out until yss comes home.

at least that's her M.O.

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Submitted by Ninji on Tue, 04/07/2015 - 11:34am

My Skids BM has NEVER wanted her kids on mothers day. Any day she can get without them is party time.

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Submitted by stepmama2one on Tue, 04/07/2015 - 11:43am

Yeah my SD's BM never seems to want her but thinks she is entitled to get her on Mother's Day because she is "her real mother". Last year, she hadn't contacted my DH for over 6 months, then of course on Mother's Day texts and says she wants to meet somewhere to pick up HER daughter so that my SD could be with her mother on Mother's Day. When we told SD, SD told us to ignore her. Of course then BM blamed us and said that she would get an attorney because it's not right what WE are putting HER and HER daughter through.

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Submitted by stepmama2one on Tue, 04/07/2015 - 11:48am

Yeah starting this year when BM messages DH I'll tell him I don't want to hear about it on Mother's Day. I feel like it would just mess my day up because it just irritates me for some reason.

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Submitted by Shaman29 on Tue, 04/07/2015 - 1:47pm

The only time Uberskank didn't take skid over mother's day weekend, was the weekend we had out of town plans.

Uberskank insisted he take skid. I warned H if he cancelling our plans would have long term effects on our marriage. He told me he didn't want the skid to think no one wanted her. I said this has nothing to do with her. It has to do with US and if he was going to stand by our relationship or throw it away.

H caved and we canceled our plans.

I'd like to say I've moved on, but that memory still fries my ass. Obviously I haven't forgiven him for it.