I've caught her going through my things, mainly my jewelry, so many times I look for boogers(she's a picker and an eater)on my things. :sick: I don't know if she's actually taken anything of mine because I switch jewelry so seldom. She has been caught and admitted to taking things of BD's.

We live in a very small, compact house...it would be extremely difficult for me to lock up things. This is also why disengaging has been down right impossible for me. I see her put things in her bag/pockets. I see her come up to BD and rip whatever BD has out of her hands. I see her pull her chair up to ridiculously close proximity to BD just so she can kick her. I don't trust this child. She's a criminal in the making, she's gross, mean, and manipulative.

I wish I would've audio recorded the fit she threw this weekend...all because she had to make her bed. I have three kids and I don't remember the older two behaving this way. I don't remember having to teach them so deeply about empathy, or to share to the extent this kid needs. This kid is going to be seven soon...shouldn't she be a little more socially aware than this? I've been thinking of finding a new job and there's no jobs in this state. Might be a good reason for FDH not to join me...after all, he has a little sociopath to tend.

That's a problem in itself. The mother laughs at these issues; its hilarious to her. And FDH is in denial. He thinks its just her age. Even my own kids as a reference for him isn't good enough.