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I just don't get it....

Gabriels Mom's picture

My sister sent me a text with a meme that says "Dear Ex...when you see me, I want you to recognize what you had, regret what you've lost and realize what you are never getting back."

I replied "why would you care what your ex thinks/does/etc?

She said "I don't, but that's what your DH's ex posted on her FB page" (she likes reading BMs FB and blog because she says it's entertaining- yea it kinda is)

Of course sister finds this hilarious.

I don't know why this irritates me. I really truly do not believe DH wants to be with her.

DH rolls his eyes.

I just want to say to her:

He doesn't want you. Yes you are losing weight and that is awesome, however, losing weight doesn't give you a better personality, you aren't a nice person. I don't get it. It's been almost 14 years why are you not over this yet?

I feel nothing when I run into an ex. I'm not mean but I treat them like I would any other stranger on the street. Also, she's married, her husband isn't bothered by this? This is not the first post in the last six months that's she's posted like this....

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princessmofo's picture

She needs to learn that when you're dead, you lie down. If I were here husband, I'd be pissed she was posting stuff like that.

Gabriels Mom's picture

If I were pining away for someone for that long I hope someone would take me out into a field and shoot me for being pathetic.

Gabriels Mom's picture

LOL I should create something like that and post it. I know she looks at my page. She steals all my pictures of SS.

Snowflake's picture

When I first got separated, that is what I thought, like about maybe for about 6 months. I thought it would make me feel great to have my ex want to pursue me me and say no.

Then about a year later, after I had completely moved on, I did have my ex pursue me. He even tried after I remarried and after I had another kid.

In all honesty, it was bittersweet and made me a bit sad. It made me sad because I had completely moved on and our family was already broken. It made me sad because he did not care enough that in pursuing me it showed complete disregard to my new family.

What in the hell is with this woman!!! It is sad that if she is remarried that she shows cares so little about her husband that she would post that. It shows that she is not over her ex if she is still thinking about him wanting her back. It is so classless that she would not care about her ex to realize that he is remarried, and hence OVER her that she has to post that.

What a piece of trash! My dh's ex still blogs about how she still "cares" about her ex. If she truly cared, then she would realize that he is finally happy with his WIFE and the kids that they created after her fat ass booted him.