I blogged at the end of Jan about SS9's bad behavior in school.

I talked SO into giving me a kid free weekend and he told BM that we weren't getting the kids the last weekend of the month in Jan.

The week before our kid free weekend, I received 7 emails from SS's teacher about really bad behavior. A PTC was set for the next week to discuss this. SO also spoke to the principal on the phone. The principal told SO that SS told him that he was misbehaving because he didn't have to come to our house that weekend and face consequences.

SO spoke to SS on the phone and told him about the PTC and that he was grounded when he came to our house. The week of the PTC SS was a perfect student in school.

The PTC was as expected. They want to work on SS's whining, disrespectfulness and disturbing class every day. Also, SS had been missing his reading book for about 5 weeks at this time. We told the principal that we had no control over retrieving the book from BM's house. (BM didn't attend the PTC. She hasn't attended one since SS was in Kindergarten) Principal says don't worry about it, we will send BM a bill in the mail for the cost of the missing text, $75.

FF to this weekend....BM texted SO on Friday and informed him that she and boy toy are getting married. SO tells her he doesn't care about her personal life but if she wants to discuss the kids he will. SS brought home 15 missing homework assignments this weekend and a project on the Giant's Causeway. She ignores the text about the kids.

Today, SO text her and told her that SS's school planner has been missing for two weeks. It needs to be found so he can write his homework assignments in it. I can't do the homework over the weekends with him if I don't know what was assigned during the week. And BM most certainly isn't going to do anything with the kid.

BM disregards that text and text back that new boy toy is a better man than SO and that SO is jealous. Also, now she and boy toy are going to give the kids a happy family. She goes on to say that SS was really good in school the week AFTER he spend the weekend with her.

I do not speak to BM, never have, but if I could I would ask why. Why do you care so little for you kids and their futures. Why is everything with SO a competition. Why do you think SO cares what you say about him or who you are dating this week.

I wonder if she really believes the crap that spews from her lips. If she does, I need some of what she's smoking.