sooo annoyed
I have an 11 yr old sd who goes to her mom and says she doesnt want to come home because I tell her what to do. If I ask her to pick up her coat she has a pissy little attitude about it but id Dad asks her its all fine and good. I am so sick of it! Its all I can do to not lose it on her sometimes because I have to not "upset" her all of the time. It pisses me off!
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I just read your other blog
I just read your other blog post and now this one. I'm shaking my head on what the heck is wrong with your DH that this kiddo is getting away with this behavior.
Don't upset the little darling? That little darling needs a reality check and if your husband doesn't act upon what's going on and do it now this kid is going to be one heck of a monster brat by the time she hits 15.
This kid has learned to play one house against the other and Daddy is eating it up hook, line and sinker. Kiddo suddenly realized she doesn't like rules and expectations and if she's a turd about it Daddy will go all 'scared of losing Precious'. Pfft. Fine, kid wants to go live with Mommy because SM is a big old evil brute? Oh wait, Mommy doesn't have custody, Daddy does and Mommy only gets kid 4 days a month. Damn is it easy being the fun no rules anything goes Mommy 4dys a month.
If Mommy wants custody she can go back to court and try to obtain it In the meantime, Mommy can keep her nose out of your home. The first mistake your DH made was falling for this new game. "Daddy, if I don't get my own way, I'll go live with Mommy. Na-na-na-poo-poo, and you'll lose me". The second mistake he made was failing to call the kid out and remind her there are rules and expectations in your home and she will respect them regardless of which one of the adults in the home asks her to do so.
I feel bad for you because this is only going to get worse You've seen nothing yet. I really have no advice because your DH let you down (and his daughter) badly on this one. If it's not already too late, the only one who can fix this is your husband and it doesn't sound as if he has any intentions of doing so. He's too busy letting an 11yr old rule the roost. Her poor little fee-fees have been hurt and you pooped on her special snowflake parade and she's put you in your place. Sad. Daddy let it happen.
Thanks for the support...It
Thanks for the support...It helps me not feel crazy!
Kiddo is certainly having fun
Kiddo is certainly having fun creating discord, and the parents are lapping it up!
DH needs to put a boot in her pwecious wittle ass that WHO GIVES A FUCK (not literally- I get it, she's little) but DO WHAT SM SAYS NOW OR ELSE.
Where do these people come from that cater to their obnoxious children?????
I appreciate all the
I appreciate all the validation and support. This is causing alot of discord in the family.I have disengaged and now its like we are not even a family. Its like I am just the woman who is married to dad. My husband and I are getting into alot of arguments over these issues. He is just convinced that his precious angel is getting upset and he thinks she is in the right here. :sick: