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Cdngirl's picture

Went in to SD15 room to put her curling iron away, went to shut her draws of her night stand and that is where I saw my vibrator. Yes you read that correct, she went into our room into our dresser that has absolutely nothing that she would need and went through our toy drawer and took my vibrator. I don't know how long she has had it, and I don't care.

I don't think I have ever lost it like that in my life. I told DH that I was throwing out all the toys because I don't know what has been up her c u next Tuesday, I was vibrating (no pun intended). It is a good thing that she was not home and is spending the night at her grandparents, because it would not have been good. Informed my DH that, that was the last straw as SD15 likes to steal from me and before she came back it was set in stone that that behavior would not be tolerated. Needless to say she is not allowed back. Told DH he was more than welcomed to move out with her as I am also done with him and his behavior of sticking his head in the sand. I think I just ended my marriage and don't really care anymore because DH and I were having major financial issues just prior to this. I am done.

God I hope I can laugh at this one day because right now I could strangle someone.

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GoodBye's picture

That is so far beyond gross and effed up I don't even know what to say. My DH would be utterly DISGUSTED with this and he would LOSE IT!!! And so would I. Just wow.

Cdngirl's picture

Gross isn't even the word. I am livid, I pointed out that, that was the one he bought for me on our anniversary. I wanted him to be even a quarter of what I felt. At least he had the decency to say he was discussed as well and can't blame me for what I am feeling. He did how try to get me to allow her back, I think that is when I repeated about what I found. It is beyond betrayal and so very disgusting. I don't think I can ever look at her again with out seeing red.

newbiemommy's picture

Omg! My SD13 did this and I was too embarrassed to tell. But eeeeewwwwww, images of SD using YOUR stuff. GROSS!!!!!! Wtf kinda of person would want to use a USED toy...... Blahhhh! Sorry about the resulting Yuck as well. Truly hope you can laugh at this someday.

GoodBye's picture

You need to set it up on the top of her night stand in plain view so she knows you found it. And then let me know what happens lol

WTF...REALLY's picture

Get her a strap on and nipple clamps - say they have been in the family for ever and it is time to pass them on. Please show me how they look - go ahead - try them on.....

bi's picture

Mine came up missing years ago, but I know that it was DD's trashy little friend that took it. There was never a doubt in my mind. Why that bitch was in my room is beyond me, but she was obviously here when I wasn't. She ended up pregnant a few years ago and now has another kid as well. She was just bad news all the way around.

SD liked to use my razors all the time. It pissed me off, but at the same time, I laughed to myself because if she only knew where I had put that razor! }:) I hope you put the toy away without cleaning it and SD comes down with a raging yeast infection or something equally bad.

Shaman29's picture

Okay. First ewwwwwwwwwww.

Second....ewwwwwwwwww.

Sorry....can't get past the ewwwwwwwwwwwww.

HadEnoughx5's picture

What was your DH's response to SD taking it? Pls tell me he had something to say to her!

somedevilishbeauty's picture

Pshh i would have put it on her pillow with a note thats says i know your secret, this is really gross.... i bet money she will be as sweet as pie if you let her back in the house or if she would want to come back.

onstrike's picture

Omg :jawdrop: that is absolutely disgusting! Dh should absolutely lay down the law. That is such a total violation. Your sd is disturbed.Who in the hell does that!!!

StepLady's picture

When I was a wee girl I used to find my mom's bra and panties in the living room and know what happened, I would cut it up with scissors being pissed! I also found a vibe and threw it in the rubbish! I did not use it on myself! I was offended by what she did! I did not want to be part of it!

StepLady's picture

When I was a wee girl I used to find my mom's bra and panties in the living room and know what happened, I would cut it up with scissors being pissed! I also found a vibe and threw it in the rubbish! I did not use it on myself! I was offended by what she did! I did not want to be part of it!

Aeron's picture

If you see her again, you Have to say something. Preferably in front of as many people as possible. Then ask her if she realized that prior to her taking it it was last inside her father.

Yes, I think something this disgustingly heinous deserves it, for both of them. Of course he'll deny it, but she'll always wonder.... Little sicko.

She_Sparkles's picture

I think you should buy her a vibrator of her own. Put the box on her pillow with a note about what not to share...you know...chapstick,toothbrush,underwear,sex toys,etc.

Cdngirl's picture

A bit of an update. I have changed the code for the locks, she is not coming back. That was her 3rd offence for stealing from me. Each time she was warned and talked to. I have had to put a lock on my bathroom door because it was getting so bad. I am done. She is not allowed back and it is now up to DH what he is going to do because I am finished. It was not only the stealing but also the lying. I would have loved to hear what her excuse was for why it was in her room, but I am too tired to care anymore.

However someone of you made me laugh and truthfully the evil side of me loved some of your ideas and I was almost tempted to let her back in just so I could do some of those.