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Submitted by Cdngirl on Tue, 09/23/2014 - 2:00pm

For those who remember .... when I discoved that my SD 15 stole one of my sex toys I had said that she was not to return. Well that is exactly what happened, she has not been back to the house since it happened. On the down side my DH has also moved out, but he was going that direction anyways with what he was doing to us financially. He signed a 6 month lease for his new place, so no decissions have to be made for at least that amount of time.

FML

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Submitted by Cdngirl on Thu, 08/28/2014 - 8:40pm

Went in to SD15 room to put her curling iron away, went to shut her draws of her night stand and that is where I saw my vibrator. Yes you read that correct, she went into our room into our dresser that has absolutely nothing that she would need and went through our toy drawer and took my vibrator. I don't know how long she has had it, and I don't care.

BM acting like a toddler

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Submitted by Cdngirl on Tue, 01/28/2014 - 7:50am

So SD14 is back with us due to being taken out of BM's home by social services. I am not happy but it is what it is and DH and I will take this one step at a time. We talked with her about expectations and what will and will not be allowed. She was also informed that if she stold from me again even if it was a mascarra case, she has 3 strikes and she is out of the house and I don't care where she goes.

Happy Happy Joy Joy

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Submitted by Cdngirl on Thu, 06/06/2013 - 11:22pm

Okay I don't post often, but I needed to post this great news to a bunch of people who would understand why this was great news. I can't smile to big at home because my DH would get upset.

What is it that has got me so happy. My SD 14 is going to go live with her BM. Is it the best place for her, probably not, but she is in no physical or psychological danger. Best case scenario she is there for the next school year and at the very least the entire summer holidays. I am so supper pumped I can't help it.

It just keeps getting better

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Submitted by Cdngirl on Thu, 02/14/2013 - 5:28pm

So I got home to see two bouquets of flowers (different) one had a couple of roses in it and the exact same boxes of chocolates along with identical envelopes one with DH 13 year old daughter's name and one with my name on it. Seriously you get us the exact same thing. Please tell me if I am over reacting because of all the other shit that is going on right now.

Told DH I was jealous of his ex-wife

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Submitted by Cdngirl on Thu, 02/14/2013 - 10:09am

So since last week when I finally had it out with DH about not wanting to be a stepparent any more, I have totally disengaged from his daughter. DH has a totally different idea of parenting that myself and anything I have managed to teach his daughter in the last year or so, he has totally wipped away by doing everything for her instead of making her do it. Thus I have become the bad guy.

Don't know if I can continue

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Submitted by Cdngirl on Fri, 02/08/2013 - 11:45am

First let me say that I do love my DH, he is very supportive and all that. My SD is 13 and I don't have any children of my own. She lives with us full time and has no set visits with her BM, both just let her go when she wants. Anyways the problem is I don't know if I want to be in this position any more. I brought no baggage into this relationship and have a great job, friends and am financially stable all on my own. My DH on the other hand brought in excessive baggage and no financial stablity, he is just now financially stable.

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