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If he could only catch her doing something, he would discipline her...

katielee's picture

Yes, DH actually said that...

Right after I told him that SD12 (almost 13) had been called back into the kitchen to re-wash a dish she's put up still disgustingly dirty, slammed things around while she washed the dish, THREW my new plate back into the cabinet UNDRIED, and then stomped out the door, SLAMMING it behind her. This is the same door DH just fixed because it mysteriously came off its hinges. (I suggested at that point that m a y b e it had to do wth SD12 slamming it all the time???)

And he says to me that he wishes he could catch her doing something so he could do something about it.

Um... seriously??? WHAT THE F*CK??? MY WORD IS NOT GOOD ENOUGH!?!

So we argued again last night and he finally scolded her about it a little and made her turn off the tv.

I'm still pissed this morning.

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katielee's picture

No, this isn't what I'd call mini-wife stuff. Most of that shit has stopped because we've established who is the Queen of this castle.

This is just disrespectful stuff that wouldn't be an issue if DH would just deal with it.

BarkAtTheMoon's picture

Hmmmm, sounds like my SD19. LOL.

My SDstb13 is just starting to behave like she is a cool badass. Luckily I have not backed down with DH and SDstb13 had her ass handed to her twice in July. First time she was punished for 10 days. Second time DH yelled at her, which never happens. She had been lying to me and then lied to DH too. Next time, I told DH, I'm not waiting for him to get home. I will clear her room of all of her stuff myself and take it to work with me. I even have empty boxes in the garage I can use.

Good luck with the moodiness. I guess they'll thank us when they are older, right, lol?

~ Moon

katielee's picture

Awesome idea. I've been thinking of using my cell phone but a nanny cam would be much better.

katielee's picture

Unfortunately, she is slamming the front door. She has already torn it up once.