BM disappeared. DH got a letter today from CS asking him to provide any information on BM's last known address, employer, or anyone who might know her whereabouts. The CS office hasn't been able to locate her or collect a payment since the first of April.

It doesn't bother me that BM disappeared and is on the run (again) and I actually think it's a good thing. She hasn't exercised her visitation rights since 2012 and is non-existent anyway. But still, I'm just curious what might have happened to her. Jail? Re-married? Homeless? Dead? Anything is possible with this ex-felon. Every month that goes by, the CS amount continues to increase so WAY TO GO, BM!

I just don't get how a person can find it more important to run and hide from the responsibility of their own kid. BM would rather scam, lie, and commit fraud instead of just keeping a job for more than 6 months and paying her own bills. Everyone has helped her and she has scammed them all and owes so many people tens of thousands of dollars. And now she's in the thousands on her CS arrears.