We'l sit an awits the drama
So once upon a time BM let her daddy beat her children. An OP was put in place for a month when the order was re-visited and a plenary order was put in place where the gpa can be around the kids (BM lives with her parents and they ramped up PAS to the level of stupid)However gpa by order of the judge who firmly reiterated and admonished gpa and BM that they should be caring for not harming children. It was made order he can't physically, emotionally or mentally harm or threaten or harass the children. He cannot infringe on their personal liberty.
Today they tell me gpa is threatening them, but before they can tell me the story I told them to save it and tell their dad or mom. (they only seem to want to tell me and I don't like that yes it's great they trust me but I also think its suspicious)
We get home and I tell SO they want to talk to him and walk away, the tell SO they story of him threatening to hit them and spank them. I stayed the heck out of it SO called the cops and this time told the kids if this was true they WOULD be talking to the police and if gpa was arrested they WOULD be put in front of a judge. So the cops came the kids told the same story the cop is going to have a chat with gpa and make a report and warn him this time (which was kinda what everyone was looking for). BM will have a fit, her parents will have a major fit and it's a good thing she's finally after 36 years (yep even during her marriage to SO she mostly lived with her parents who wouldn't let SO see her)getting her own place course it's directly behind their house.
It'll be interesting in an hour or so or she'll be silent and then threaten the kids.
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BM herself isn't bad enough
BM herself isn't bad enough to lose custody. SO just got a job and BM is moving out of their house (to the house directly behind theirs lol) I'm glad he did I'm glad he made the kids tell the officer why he was their, and the officer was awesome with the kids had them laughing so hard which was great because BM's family has instilled in them cops are bad.
I think BM will either give up and hand over the kids or she'll get her shit together. Every time she gets taken to task and held accountable she either stops what she was doing (telling the kids she'd spank them if they didn't lie and say we beat them) or get right show up to a 7 yr olds (first ever) pediatrician appt! the kids had never seen a regular doc just health dept and ER and they had free healthcare. SO went to the state aid and they gave him their insurance under his account and BM lost all her benefits (she lied about everything her income living with her parents etc) it's a matter of time one way or the other but no way will I just sit while someone flouts breaking the rules and not following the CO meant to protect children!
they have 50/50 week on week
they have 50/50 week on week off no majority joint legal but bf makes most decisions she's almost to stupid to manage decisions hence how bf got the kids medicaid, doc, dentist, no cs bf won't file he makes less (like he just got a job last week and has been unemployed for most of the winter) only thing BM will argue is over school she wants them the walking distance to her failing rinkiy dink school vs our stellar school with massive support system for all needs, and helping their son whose doc and therapist said he needs meds! She really just digs a hole and has thus far refused to even meet the therapist.
some days, most days I
some days, most days I remember I was young and dumb and had my 2 kids with my ex. He's his own piece of work. Not as much drama and a half ass decent parent when he's not being selfish but I tell myself it could be worse my SO could have 2 BM's