bitchy wife of friend decided that she doesn't think me and SO should be together b/c we took away from her and her husbands time with him last week. They see each other once to twice a week with their kids playing mostly just drinking.

This is the same woman who when I first met her I rode with her to a "girls dinner" /wives of my SO's friends and the whole way she decided to tell me all the gory details of Biomom and SO along with SO's brief dating history and preferences. Then fast forward a few weeks later at a concert with same group of couples and she decides to announce in a van full of people BioMoms' name a few times into random conversation. (everyone hated biomom including her)

then fast forward a month or two later and she decided that I should know all about SO's past sex partner and she invited the past one time sexual encounter partner to our family camping trip where I had invited my best friend her husband and kid. SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO after we learned she invited this girl (who never actually get's invited to anything b/c no one really talks to her anymore) We decide to ditch the camping and go to the ZOO. After that we go over to this bitchy wife of friend and friend's house and she corners me in the kitchen to tell me all of the details again of this girl SO slept with once 15 years ago. I listen to her for a bit and then she gets personal. "oh (past sex partner) doesn't want children b/c she knows she can't travel after she has them, she and her husband have a wonderful life being childless and traveling around the world....blah blah...."

finally one day I told her "look I don't know what the point of you doing all this is but I don't need to know about it any of this stuff SO will tell me or we can talk about it ...etc but basically lay the F off of me with this nonsense"

So yesterday she decided to tell me she thinks I'm bad for her and SO's relationship :jawdrop: YOU HAVE A HUSBAND. This lady blabs her mouth about everyones business shares "Secrets" and "gossip" that shouldn't be shared about people if you consider them your friends...

I've learned to deal with her but she's now saying that I affect her and MY SO's relationship. HAAAAAAAAAA seriously. I haven't even told SO b/c it's not worth mentioning and spending the time or attention on her stupidness. but seriously????

She blames me for anything that's ever happened in his and my relationship most of which she has no clue wth she's even talking about b/c no one tells her anything for fear that it will be on CNN.
She tries to be mothering I'm 30 and a hell of a lot more mature than her at nearly 36.
enough.