So glad weekend is over. SD visited after being away for months. SD came very boldly in to the kitchen and asked me, what she could eat. I say boldly because her body language was aggressive. She is a very very healthy child. I told her to get a Lunchable and some Fruit. She got the items and headed toward her room. I said uggggh You need to eat at the table. We dont eat all over the house . She rolled her eyes and sat at the table. We had plans for Saturday to drive to the country and visit DH's home town. See some family we had not seen for years. I told him I was going to stay home. He said NO, I want you to go with me. It wont be the same if you don't go. I went. SD did not speak to any of the family once we arrived. She sulked and pouted. I was so ashamed. As it was my first time meeting some of the family members; I just home they understood that I did not birth this child. BM called while we were driving. She had a screaming fit on the phone ;something about DH bringing SD back to her early. Well Sunday we went to church and to IHOP for breakfast. My DD22 met us. SD sulked and pouted all through church service. She perked up when we reached IHOP. She ordered chicken and waffles. She poured blueberry syrup and ketchup over everything on her plate. She proceeded to eat with her hands. She had syrup and ketchup up to her wrist. I tried, I really tried to keep my mouth shut. I couldnt do it. I told her to pick up her fork and eat like a lady. She says "but its GOOD". SMH. Fast FWD. MY DH takes her home and receives a text message from BM later that night, which read Be the type of man you would want your daughter to be with" then " CANT YOU DO ANYTHING ALONE WITH YOUR DAUGHTER"