I have a headache from Hell. SD11 is here for the weekend. She has not come over for months. The crazy BM had a fit during Christmas because DH didn't purchase Beats headphones for SD. Well she is here because BM needs a brat sitter for the weekend. When I heard she was coming over ; the headache started forming. She did not speak when she came in, totally rude. Went to her room and slammed the door. After a few minutes, she came beating on our bedroom door. DH is just getting off work and was asleep. I ignored the knock because in her mind I don't exist. He eventually answered her.

Just a little vent before I start my Monday. SD10 has not been over for the last 2 scheduled visitations. So I have not had to deal with her for a whole month. BM texted DH late last night. He tells me " BM wants "us" to keep SD tomorrow night. Well she didnt say us because in her mind I don't exist after 5 years of marriage to DH. That was his way of editing what she really said. I didn't reply. A look of total defeat was on my face. Later he asked why I didnt answer or say anything about SD staying on Monday night. I told him He didn't ask me a question ; he just told me what BM wanted.

My DH allowed SD to use my laptop and she created a very strange YouTube video. A bunch of rambling about nothing really. What made it inappropriate was the gestures and facial expressions and lip puckering she was doing. I spoke to DH about it. He says that's what they do. Well I don't think it's safe for young girls to post suggestive things on YouTube . Also I could see all her previous comments on different videos. She was using profanity and just being much too Adult. I really want to show this to DH.

The past 2 visits she has left earrings, shoes, jacket, school books etc etc. The 1st time it happened she left earrings and a jacket . The next day, the BM texts and texts DH to bring the things to her home after she was home from work. I put them n a bag and DH left them on her patio b4 she got home. The 2nd time she left her shoes, one earring and placed her textbook under my car as she walked through our garage at the end of the visit. DH found the book under my car when he returned home. U guessed it. BM started calling and texting again for him to bring the things.