BM OFFERED TO BE MY SURROGATE....... WHAT THE WHAT!!!!!!????
Wipe your eyes and read that title again. Yes you read that right. BM asked to speak to me about something personal and important. She found out through a mutual church friend who I thought I could trust that I have infertility issues and may never carry a child. For those of you who read my post you know this is a deep personal struggle for me. One that BM has thrown in my face at every possible opportunity. Imagine my horror when BM offers to be my surrogate. She says she has prayed and feels in her spirit this is the right thing to do and it will bring our family unit so much closer together. I told her no thank you and if this is a joke its not funny. I will not be speaking to her ever again if I can avoid it. I had some choice words but I kept those to myself because I was raised to bite my tongue.
Has she lost what little mind she had left? Was this some cruel joke? A sick way of trying to get money out of us. Or is she delusional. I would rather use a gorilla from the wild to be my surrogate. I would rather be slapped by a fish 20 times that let my egg anywhere near her womb. I feel the need vomit at the thought of my baby being pulled from her .... her... I will not even type that. I refuse to type that. I'm really angry and it takes a lot to anger me. Yes this is truth my truth. I never want to see her face. I've never wanted to punch someone so bad in my life. DH thinks it is just the funniest most moronic thing he has ever heard and she must be on drugs. He must have been on drugs to even slide his penis unprotected into the gaping walls of hell over and over again. I'm gaging as I type. I have more to say but I can't go on. I'm going to scream at the top of my lungs a few more times and go do something productive with my time.
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Actually, even if it's OP's
Actually, even if it's OP's egg the law would consider BM the legal mother until they signed paperwork for her to terminate her rights and OP to adopt the baby. Fucked up, isn't it? I've seen cases where the surrogate fought for custody! Never heard of one actually winning, because papers are signed before hand where the surrogate says "It's not my baby and I will sign it over after birth" but, still, not something anyone wants to go through!
You really need to talk to
You really need to talk to your friend about trust and friendship, as in she won't have yours again - ever.
I'd immediately think, "What
I'd immediately think, "What kind of scam is she pulling THIS time...?" because if it were our BM, she'd figure out SOME way to make the government pay her more for having another child! As well as probably trying to get more CS or at least having that to lord over you and your DH's head forever.
ICK :jawdrop: :sick: :sick: :sick: :sick:
"I would rather use a gorilla
"I would rather use a gorilla from the wild to be my surrogate. "
lmaoooooo
Ick! That is all.
:jawdrop: :sick:
Ick! That is all.
EWWW!! The thought of that
EWWW!! The thought of that is just ..... DISGUSTING. I could not imagine!
That is sick. I can't even
That is sick. I can't even imagine what you must have felt.
This was priceless though -->"I would rather use a gorilla from the wild to be my surrogate." hahaha!
I'm guessing she wants to be
I'm guessing she wants to be able to say she's the only one to have carried DH's children. How weird, gross, inappropriate, ect..... Worse than BM asking me to help plan her wedding after attempting to bash me in court.
Also, I would not trust her to carry your child. What is to stop her from drinking, taking drugs, or doing other things that could be harmful to your baby while pregnant?
dup
dup
Oh, for cryin' out loud.
Oh, for cryin' out loud. That's NUTS. That's... so very wrong in so many ways.
And what an awful betrayal - I hope your so called friend's eyebrows fall off.
Ummmm, I wouldve punched her
Ummmm, I wouldve punched her in her face than enjoyed my free time in jail. She sounds like she wants to rub it in your face that its soooo easy for her to have children and offering to carry one of your husbands babies again!?! She knows thats gonna hurt to even think about that....she just went for your juggler. Ewwww, that makes me angry!!!
HOLY mother
HOLY mother of......satan..... :sick: :jawdrop:
You know, THIS is the kind of
You know, THIS is the kind of shit you really can't make up.
If you do use a surrogate, be sure to wipe BMs nose in how you had to select JUST THE RIGHT person so you knew your baby would be SAFELY carried!!!