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BM trying to look like me

WWSMD's picture

I really have a feeling that BM is sick in the head. I don't want to ever say I regret marrying my husband. I just think that the wedding was hard on BM and she fell off the coo coo's nest. She has never really been right in the head but she starting to act very strangely. She has changed her look to look very similar to mines. I cover up a lot I'm a long skirt long sleeve kind of woman and BM has always been the more revealing type. I have wild auburn curves that reach my waist. Yesterday getting the kids for mid week visitation BM comes out with long brown curly extensions and a long black dress. She even had on the kind of head band I wear.
At first she was dressing overly sexy and now she is dressing like me. I have a weird feeling in my gut and a chill down my spine. I found that extremely creepy. I made a comment that I liked her new hair style and she said she just wanted to try something new. I don't know if she doesn't realize that she is trying to look like me or if it was a joke or if she is seriously disturbed. I am really uncomfortable this woman creeps me out.

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somedevilishbeauty's picture

BM did this when DH and I started getting serious. Dyed her hair blonde and straighten her thin curls then curled it in beiger curls just like I did. Then she tried to wear this skirt and tank top like I had worn a couple weeks before. ( Which looked horrible she didn’t have the body type for that outfit) Anyways. Next couple of drop offs, I put on a short wig and wore caprees with a weird looking halter top ( which I never wear) BM took the bait, cut her hair short and dressed similar. Then I show back up at drop off looking like myself again and I think she caught on that I figured out what she was doing lol DH and I had a good laugh about it.

lil_lady's picture

BM does the same thing with me... I think she realized how serious we where anyways she has never had long hair I have REALLY long hair that I curl. Sure enough she gets extensions and curls it... I chopped off ALL my hair.. just laugh that's all you can do it is kind of funny in the long run!

lil_lady's picture

Also on her good days BM has admitted to myself and my friend that she likes me and WANTS to be my friend... Has literally pulled aside a friend of mine at work to try to get the message across! I think they start to think that if they look like us maybe they will get what they want?? I don't know its a little more then weird then a week later they are off loosing it on you via email/txt and actually wonder why it is that you aren't friends... craziness I tell ya! Certifiably crazy.

oldone's picture

I don't know who BM is trying to look like. In her younger pictures she has kind of light brown hair in a blah short style.

Now I think she looks like Yoko Ono. Little gold glasses and really long black black hair. And no she is not Asian. Nobody should die their hair black black black - shoe polish black - especially at 50.

lac925's picture

Creepy - yes, Funny - yes. Sad - definitely! :?

Our BM couldn't even begin to TRY to look like me (not to be conceited or anything). First, I'm a different race - I'm Asian and she's white trash. Second, she's like 50 lbs heavier than me, and I've started working out to get my pre-babies body back. Third, she just doesn't have the class or the smarts to even attempt it! Blum 3