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Submitted by BMnotallowed on Mon, 12/16/2013 - 6:55pm

I had to delete my last blog. For those who didn't see it. BM came by Saturday to get the girls for an event the youngest clung to DH and kept trying to run to him. BM got out of the car and yanked her arm so hard she brused it. We also found marks on the oldest girl's back. DH asked me not to go into any details for legal and personal reasons. But what I can say is he is doing everything in his power to keep his girla safe. BM drove away Saturday morning telling him to just keep them and we haven't heard from her since. She isn't home and her car is gone. She is notg answering her phone. This is a tough time for us and I can see the girls hearts breaking. I have no idea what is going on with BM but I don't wish anything bad. She needs help. Keep us in your hearts.

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Submitted by StepKat on Mon, 12/16/2013 - 7:18pm

I'm so glad to hear the kids are safe. In my eyes that's all that matters. You and your family are in my prayers.

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Submitted by HadEnoughx5 on Mon, 12/16/2013 - 8:59pm

It's a sad situation but the kids are safe, thank God. FormerAAGirl would be a great person to send a personal message to. Former has experienced the Beast abandoning her kids and it sounds like you both have something in common. Just a suggestion. I will keep you both in my prayers and good luck.

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Submitted by Anon2009 on Mon, 12/16/2013 - 10:43pm

Lots of (((HUGS))) and prayers to you all, especially the kids.

Dh should talk to a lawyer about getting the kids counseling. I say that because although bm is not in the picture at this time, he should still play it safe so if she resurfaces and complains that she wasn't consulted, he and a judge will know he acted in accordance with the law and co. Dh needs to do this ASAP so his kids can get help very soon in dealing with BMs abuse, neglect and abandonment.