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Tired of my skids .. Am I the only one ?

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Submitted by tired step mom on Sun, 08/18/2013 - 1:24pm

Hello I am a mother of 2, and married to someone that has also 2 kids... they are here 50% of the time, and the other 50% with their mother ( thank God). ... I just cant take them anymore.. the yougest now 14 he is just there.. doing nothing not talking to no one all the time. I have 2 words with him each day.. hi and good night.. or sometimes. its just have you washed your hands... I just cant handled them anymore, each time I know they are coming over I am so grumpy, as if I am a different person .. we have been living together for 6 years, and more and more its worse, I wish that one day he will say I am going to stay at mom's forever... but the problem his dad does everything for him .. all he has to do is say dad.. and this is it he is up and running for him .. am I freaking out for nothing.. I am seriously thinking of leaving this relationship, its not healthy for me... any comments thanks !

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Submitted by furkidsforme on Sun, 08/18/2013 - 1:49pm

Have you talked to your DH about how you feel about your role in the family, and his parenting style with SS14?

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Submitted by xenedra_26 on Sun, 08/18/2013 - 5:18pm

So I've been disengaging for the last month or soo..it rocks. You should try it. Since your ss is a couch potato anyway, it should be pretty easy. I have 3 ss's, all obese, only one that I like (love even), but am not responsible. All 3 of my daughters are well behaved, get good grades, have interesting hobbies, and even my 7 yr old plays chess. I concern myself with them, spend a lot of time pursuing our outside hobbies. Working well. May I suggest it?:)