Well SD is back at it. If you read my blog she's been bad mouthing me and DH to her mom while at our house. DH gets a text from BM this weekending calling him an SOB saying that she can't believe he took SD's Ipod away and that we were trying to keep her from talking to her daughter. She also said that she's so scared for her daughter because she still has 5 weeks with us and SD was so sad. We believe the messages were meant for someone else and she accidentally sent them to DH but she claims she meant to send them.

After having our blow up with SD after finding the text messages DH and I both had separate conversations with her apologizing for some of the things that were said and letting her know that we love her and just want her to be happy whether it be at her moms or with us. After these conversations with her she told her mom that I was mean and I have been for a long time and that when DH leaves I treat them horrible. She told BM that DH told her he didn't want her to be his daughter anymore.

Part of the text message that BM sent to DH said these things were said by SD. We asked SD about it and she admitted that she told BM these things. So last night in an effort to put a stop to all of this we had a conference call with DH, SD, and BM. I was in the other room. SD apologized to BM saying that she lied about me being mean and that we were actually really good to her. She said she did it because she wants DH and BM to get back together and she needed attention.

BM told DH that SD has been complaining about me for over a year now and that most times she comes home baling because I've treated her so bad. SD spoke up and said no I don't mom you know I don't! BM said that I threatened to slap SD across the face and that I told her it would leave a red mark because I would slap her so hard. I did tell her I would slap her, if you heard the way she was talking to me you would've too, but I didn't do it. BM also said that her husband isn't living in the house and that he stays with his mom. SD said he's there all the time mom you're lying! BM turned it around and said well DH if she was sitting in front of me and we had you on the phone maybe she wouldn't be so scared to admit how her SM treats her! DH said well when she gets home you guys can call me and we will continue this conversation. When they hung up SD pleaded with DH saying over and over that her BM is the lair and that her rapist husband IS living there and she doesn't cry every time she leaves our house. She also said that she doesn't think I treat her badly she was just wanting attention.

BM is such a piece of work. Funny how I've been treating SD sooooo badly for over a year yet BM's just now bringing it up. It never came up in the custody case that's been going on for the last two years but now that BM's DH has been charged with rape she's trying to do whatever she can to take the attention off of the fact that she lives with a rapist and on to us.