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Submitted by myspoonistoobig on Fri, 07/05/2013 - 2:44pm

Dear BM,

It doesn't matter how nice you are to me today with your sweet conversational texts, I will not convince DH that it's a good idea to let you take SS back two days early.

1) You have him 9 months out of the year... more actually
2) Your reasoning is, well I let you have him a day early? Re-read the CO lady, that's not how this dance works. The CO you signed lets us have him an extra 2 weeks if we wanted to pursue the matter, so stop acting like you aren't the CP in this scenario.
3) As you told me 2 years ago, when I asked and before you went batshit crazy, I just don't know if I'm comfortable being your friend on facebook.... I wouldn't ask me why if I were you.

Have a MAGICAL day BM!

Much love,
Evil SM

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Submitted by myspoonistoobig on Fri, 07/05/2013 - 4:03pm

No... but if I followed up on every impulse I had, I'd be like that.

If only because it seems to bother her entire family that we're pagan.

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Submitted by chokinonlemons2u on Fri, 07/05/2013 - 3:26pm

I deleted BM off my FB this week. And the skids too.

I hated it when she would try to be all fake nice to me to then try and get me to pressure my husband to give her the kids back.

No bitch. You've been arrested for assault and battery on a child and arrested another time for child neglect. Be lucky u see them at all!!!!!!

95% of the time NEVER trust a BM

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Submitted by myspoonistoobig on Fri, 07/05/2013 - 4:04pm

Yeah, I can honestly say that our BM isn't that bad.

I sometimes find myself hoping she'll do something stupid, like kidnap SS so we can go after full custody.

Then I slap myself, because that's stupid.

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Submitted by Anon2009 on Fri, 07/05/2013 - 3:28pm

I know this is sort of veering away from BMs bad behavior but I'll say this...I'd miss my kid if I didn't see him for nine months, and I'd miss my kid if I didn't see him for three months. Neither sounds wonderful.

That said, she needs to find a counselor, and you should block her number. She doesn't need to talk to you. She needs to talk with dh. If she has his cell # and your home #, that's all she needs.

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Submitted by myspoonistoobig on Fri, 07/05/2013 - 4:06pm

Yes on the counselor. I'm not worried about her talking to me. I am okay with her talking to me, since I'm currently taking care of her kid, and she isn't harassing me... yet.

But if it comes to that, believe me I have no qualms with setting more severe boundaries should it be necessary.