Oh button pushing huh?
SO went and signed the supposed fixed and completed custody agreement and parenting plan. The one he begged I help with, the one I wrote, researched and helped him as they negotiated to get what was best for the kids.
Last we had discussed he was getting almost everything he wanted and some wording tweeks and the day for switches was to be changed to what it already is. He went and signed, came home all aeemed well. I patiently waited for him to show it to me and after 3mediation hours asked if I could see the final product he said "No you don't need to see it, it's none of your business."
I'm livid like about to scream and yell and kick him out livid. I feel like he is pushing my buttons by saying that and it really hurt my feelings.
If it's none of my business I can take back everything I've bought for his kids and my kids room and my whole home where he made them my business and I made space in my home.
I'm going to go yell fuck a lot.
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Really? Wow! What the fuck is
Really? Wow! What the fuck is up with him? Why, if you helped to do so much, would he fucking tell you it's none of your business? I would def be livid.
^^^THIS! And heaven help DH
^^^THIS! And heaven help DH had he said this to me. He'd still be searching for his nuts...
WOW...I dare my DH to EVER
WOW...I dare my DH to EVER tell me something like that. I would flip my lid!! You really need to make him regret that.
Everything that goes on in MY
Everything that goes on in MY house, is MY business. So if something he is involved with is NOT my business, he can get the EFF OUT!
That's just how I see it
When he wants a little
When he wants a little bedroom action "Not your business"
When he wants supper "Not your business"
When he needs help with kids "Not you business" "Not your business"
When he wants anything its "Not your business"
He himself told you "Not your business" Make him pay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And
When you get un mad make sure anything having to do with his kids or BM are "Not your business"
Especially anything
Especially anything financial. Down to the gasoline in the gas tank to pick them up. "Not my business to fill the gas tank so you can get your 'not my business' kids."
I'd probably do something I'd
I'd probably do something I'd be very sorry for if it had been me. Possibly even in jail.
I don't see how it could of
I don't see how it could of gone from a dang good agreement her laywer wrote as the final agreement and just needed two words changed monday to friday and BM's weekend to week (it's. 50/50 friday to friday) everything else was good to go he just had to go read over make sure those had been fixed and sign. He's refused to sign anything with an error so idk I think it's a control/power thing. First thing I did was change my wifi password told him it was now none of his business he's stomping around that and I'm going to "play that game" yes yes I am everything I pay for everything that is mine is no longer his business which is everything. He'll have to apologize big time before I let up I'm livid and hurt.
His ass would have been out
His ass would have been out the front door if it was my DH. What a dumb ass.
DH tried to tell me once (years ago) that they were his kids and it was "his decision" (I can't even remember what it was about). He has NEVER said that again or anything close to it because he lived his life as if he were single again for many days until he realized what a stupid thing that was to say and what a stupid way it was to act. Don't do a damn thing for him or the skids.