well to start with she told us a lot of lies about her mother said she hated her mom and didn't want to live with her anymore and got us to go talk to a lawyer so she could move in with us she lived her for 6 weeks we got along perfectly then she went to her moms one day and all of a sudden she wouldn't answer our text or calls. that's when I knew something was up. she decieded she wanted to live with her mother after we went to a lawyer and wasted 3000.00 dollars. Then I get a screaming cussing phone call from her mother saying I had been integrating her daughter and forcing her to talk which was never the case I never ask her about what goes on at her house she freely tells us more info about what goes on there than we care to know. she told her mom I allowed her boyfriend to come over and stay in her bedroom which was not the case he came over but was always in the family room with an adult present. she had started herself a facebook page which her mom had told her no she couldn't have one , so she told her I started it so her mom was pissed about that said she started all this crap at our house when if she would look back on her fb page she could see she started 14 weeks ago and she was still living with her at the time. she told her mom I force her to put the phone on speaker everytime she is on the phone so I could here what was being said. that I wouldn't buy here anything that she needed even though we spent at least a 1000.00 on her when she moved in with us because her mother wouldn't let her get any of her stuff. its just on going she lies about little shit that theres no reason to lie about and then big shit that starts fights between us and the bm. its a nightmare im to the point I cant stand to even look at her I used to do all kinds of stuff with her thought of her as my own I have been in her life since she was 2 so its not like its a new relationship. its heartbreaking to me and now im just DONE CARING!!!1

I know I told my husband if hes not here shes not here I don't even want him to be out of the house if she is inside the BM always tells my husband there is evidently stuff going on when your not around that im so negative to her and mean when hes not there and its all hear say cause the bm never sees me with the sd12. it pisses me off cause I have always tried to do everything I could for her im harder on my own kids than I have ever been on her. but no I wont ever be alone with her nor will my kids.

this is what im afraid will end up happening so I refuse to be alone with her she will be the type of girl that will holler rape or pregnant if a guy pisses her off she is a bully at school to girls she doesn't like. she has done this same shit in the past but she had been getting better I thought she was growing up but nope I let her suck me back in with the whole good girl act just to be screwed over again. she was here last weekend and I didn't say a word to her which was really hard to keep my mouth shut and not tell her what I really think of her manpulative lying little ass.

this is what im afraid will end up happening so I refuse to be alone with her she will be the type of girl that will holler rape or pregnant if a guy pisses her off she is a bully at school to girls she doesn't like. she has done this same shit in the past but she had been getting better I thought she was growing up but nope I let her suck me back in with the whole good girl act just to be screwed over again. she was here last weekend and I didn't say a word to her which was really hard to keep my mouth shut and not tell her what I really think of her manpulative lying little ass.

omg that is absolutely horrible but sounds like where my sd12 is headed. ahhhh!