I haven't been here in ages!!! So many new names! Welcome to all! As you can see with my title, I think I made it obvious that I moved into Daddy Dearest home. I moved in SEVEN years ago. I never had an issue with SD17 (10 years old when I moved in) and SS15 (8yo when I moved in about to turn 16 in 3 months) telling me that...until now.

Last summer, SD, 16 at the time got caught sneaking out and drinking alcohol in her room. She couldn't handle the punishment, so she said "Well, if all I am going to be doing is up in my room all summer long, I might as well go to my moms" I was home alone with them while dad was out of town. I asked her if she was sure that she wanted to do that and she said yes. She actually thought she was going to come back after summer vacay was over. She hadn't seen her BM since Feb of 2007. Mommy lost custody, CO'ed to supervised visits ONCE a week at a designated center. Mommy didn't do as she was told and ran away from her problems to another state. Been there going on 6 years. As far as we know, people are looking for her ready to take her to court. Not my business though. Only reason we know is because they call my SO business line that she used as a reference without his knowledge.

So, BM conned/manipulated SD now 17 into staying with her. As far as we know, SD17 went from having her own bedroom with a queen sized bed to sleeping on the COUCH at her grandmothers home where BM has been living at for the past 6 years. While, SD17 goes to school and to work (yay to her for getting a job! Seriously, yay!) BM sits at home with NO JOB. Have no idea where she sleeps. I am assuming she gave up the couch for SD.

SD17 has told SO that she does not like it there. She isn't happy and she misses her room. Supposedly SD and BM hardly talk. They live in a 1100sf home with 2 other adult females. If that is the truth, that must be really uncomfortable. BUT according to SS15, SO misunderstands SD17. She doesn't want to come back. Then why is she telling her dad those things...?

Okay, SD17 and SS15 keep in touch through their cell phones. I can only imagine what they talk about. I know when she first left, he started communicating with his BM. Ladies and gentlemen, there was a reason as to why BM was court ordered supervised visits.

Ever since, he started to talk to his BM, I am now told that "THIS ISN'T YOUR HOUSE". Simple basic rules that we had, he no longer follows. SO and I are a team, I work from home most days. It is my job to make sure everything is in order in the house and my SO cooks dinner for us. I can't go into "his" room because "This isn't your house" His Xbox that his BM sent him can't be taken away because we didn't buy him that. He now uses his cell phone to tattle-tell on me. He will text message his dad while at work to give him his side of the story and claim he didn't do anything wrong. Excuse me, but fucking up my brand new expensive blender, that I just bought is a reason for me to get upset at you!!! Just an example but true story. He NEVER used to text message his dad.

It annoys the crap out of me that he calls his sister that lives in another state to tattle-tell also. And she then tells BM, giving BM something to talk about. BM used to send emails which she now stopped because she can now talk to SS15. It is nice that SD17 and SS15 keep in touch but does SS15 have to tell her what is going on over here? I mean, what is SD17 going to do about it? Yes I know, the kid is venting to his sister, just like I am doing here. But I know for a fact that they are both talking "shit" about me. What 15 year old boy knows about Gucci? I owned a pair of sunglasses that I bought with my hard earned money a few years ago. After a few years of having them, they went missing. He was throwing it in my face how I go shopping all the time (not true) and how I buy Gucci? WTF! So, I am to sit at home and not buy myself anything?

I am just venting here. SO is out of town and SS15 is being disrespectful and defiant now. Not following a simple rule that he has been breaking for quite sometime. Now, he is using cuss words when being scolded. That is a new one to me. SD17 never had the nerve to do that but obviously he feels he has the right to do it. I HATE teenagers. I really want a drink but I must not have one! Trying to lose weight here!