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Submitted by jennysue on Sat, 01/12/2013 - 3:11pm

I do not have any kids of my own but I have nieces and have friends with girls I don't remember them acting like SD 5 does towards her father. Lately she keeps trying to open mouth kiss him, does dance "routines" that are more like a stripper on a pole, shaking her ass at him, dry humping the floor, she keeps trying to see him naked and she's been coming into our room at night laying on top of him then will straddle him. I've told her her actions are inappropriate, my husband has too about the kissing, he tells her not to dance so sexy and to stay out of the bathroom/our bedroom when he's showering or changing, he thinks the laying on top of him is just her "snuggling" with her dad. I find it all creepy, I don't remember sexualizing myself to my dad or my nieces doing it with theirs, granted its been almost 30 yrs since I was 5 and wasn't with my nieces and friend's kids every moment. So is this normal??

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Submitted by StartingToLoose1t on Tue, 01/22/2013 - 3:25pm

I agree with Cheri.. that is super not normal. and it may be very possible that she is getting abused when she is with her mother. you said that her mother doesn't want to be bothered with her, it possible a friend of her's is harming your SD. i would defiantly take her to see a doctor and have "everything" checked. if it turns out that that hasn't been the case you may want to have her see a psychologist or something, that's not normal behavior, she is being subjected to something not her age range.

lol we could always blame MTV Smile

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Submitted by LittlePanda on Sun, 02/10/2013 - 11:19am

I don't think this is "normal" behavior, however, I have a friend who claims that she was hyper sexual from age 2 and up. She says her mom tells her that she would hump pillows and such and was just always way too interested in the sexual side of things. She didn't act like that to her father though, as far as I know. I know this is an older blog post but I agree with the others, get that girl to a doctor who can talk to her and check everything out. Just to be safe. If it's not abuse it's just the child being jealous of your relationship with the father and trying to compete in a way and not understanding what the implications are.