people always tell you who they are.. just sometimes you have to read between the lines.
Laid back and Easy just remove a few letters (phonetically)... and you get "Lazy" and that is the partner he is.. he thinks laid back.. really he is passive.. and wants others to read his mind to know when to leave him alone.. to plan the activities.. push the social envelope.. he is content to .. just not.
I'm so glad you are settling in to a happier place. Clearly his multiple profiles are odd.. and it could be any of the reasons.. or just that he is casting a wide net.. hoping to catch a fish.
Get him out of your mind. He has a life to live. You are not part of it anymore. He now like a neighbor, three blocks away. You know him by sight, but you just don't care about him
I have secondhand embarrasment for him. Multiple profiles is NOT normal, especially for the same area. And Purr like a tiger...lol. I would never click on someone that wrote that, even if I were desperate.
Meanwhile, you are living your best life with friends. Good for you!
I love how you are living well and living your revenge . That you friends are a big part of you stepping into the beginning of your new life adventure is what true friends are for.
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Do It Now
Block him now. On all avenues. Phone. Email. Social Media. Etc. Charge up the cameras. If he comes around, immediately call the police.
And while I understand the need to "see" what he's doing....careful to not go over-board. You took the trash out....leave it to the curb, Sweet Lady.
how sad is his ass? he cannot
how sad is his ass? he cannot spend too mmuch time alone with himself. pathetic. and I am so glad you made the move you needed to to protect yourself.
people always tell you who
people always tell you who they are.. just sometimes you have to read between the lines.
Laid back and Easy just remove a few letters (phonetically)... and you get "Lazy" and that is the partner he is.. he thinks laid back.. really he is passive.. and wants others to read his mind to know when to leave him alone.. to plan the activities.. push the social envelope.. he is content to .. just not.
I'm so glad you are settling in to a happier place. Clearly his multiple profiles are odd.. and it could be any of the reasons.. or just that he is casting a wide net.. hoping to catch a fish.
Good for you for getting out!
Good for you for getting out!
Block him
Get him out of your mind. He has a life to live. You are not part of it anymore. He now like a neighbor, three blocks away. You know him by sight, but you just don't care about him
Validation
I think I understand that seeing him being pathetic online, helps validate you did the right thing, further pushing you away into your joy.
I tend to get mired in the mucky muck sometimes, but its like scratching that itch "I need to know stuff here".
Eek
I have secondhand embarrasment for him. Multiple profiles is NOT normal, especially for the same area. And Purr like a tiger...lol. I would never click on someone that wrote that, even if I were desperate.
Meanwhile, you are living your best life with friends. Good for you!
I love how you are living
I love how you are living well and living your revenge . That you friends are a big part of you stepping into the beginning of your new life adventure is what true friends are for.
Please keep us up on your journey.
Take care of you.
Glad to hear you're doing
Glad to hear you're doing well and feeling blessed during this time. Nothing like a positive supportive network to help with the coping process