I have been with the same man for about a year and a half now, he has two daughters, the oldest is 14 and the youngest is 9. I, myself have a 10 year old son. We haven't always had the best relationship and New Years of 2019/2020 we got into a huge argument while drunk and I fell and busted my head. The police automatically assumed that my boyfriend hurt me and arrested him. We went to court and got the charges dropped( thank the lord). Over the past few months me and my stepdaughter (14) have had issues. She was making snotty remarks towards me, is always hanging on my boyfriend and tries to find any way she can to get in between us. Back in January after she had an attitude the weekend prior, I noticed she moved all my stuff in the shower and replaced it with all her stuff which was just empty bottles. I felt disrespected, so I texted her and asked her not to move my stuff. A huge argument blew up and she confessed to hating me after we spent so much time together and seemed to have a great relationship. She refused to come back to my boyfriends house for months and only just recently came back. Now she is even ruder to me and my son, makes fun of him for his learning disabilities and ADHD and constantly has a horrible attitude towards us. She is lazy and is always hanging on her dad. I can't even sit beside him anymore, she talks him into staying up extremely late knowing I work early and that I will end up going to bed. Then once I'm in bed she talks him into basically spending our only time together ( weekends because we're on different schedules) away from me. I barely see him anymore and it's caused a serious strain on our relationship. When I bring up to him how it's making me feel he accuses me of being jealous of her when in all reality I just see what she's doing. I don't know what to do!