Another episode of how to make you kids life harder starring B*ver
In our last episode Beaver did nothing to punish GWR for his role in the "study hall prank". SD was not thrilled with this development but has since calmed down and accepted this as norm.
In this weeks episode Beaver further proves how lazy she is and how little she cares about SD's comfort and/or making SD's life easier.
Both skids go to our school district. It is a pretty decent school district and way better than the getto district the Beaver dam is in. Right now the kids are on a hybrid schedule..one week in school..one week remote. The remote week is on Beaver's week and the in school is on our week. Cool..Cool...SD just takes her bus from our house during our week. Easy peasy lemon squeezy as my DD says.
Except for Friday...you knew there was a catch with the old bitter Beaver. On Friday, they switch houses. Ah the joy..
Past years....SD took the bus to school and then took it back to our house. Beaver would then pick her up on her way home from work. SD had a chance to pack up her stuff and NOT have to take the entire lot of stuff to school.
Again..Easy Peasy Lemon Squeezy....especially since Beaver's place of employment is 2.8 miles from our house..9 minutes if there is a little bit of traffic. Our little city here doesn't have THAT much traffic.
If you guessed this is now a problem....WINNER WINNER CHICKEN DINNER.
yes...Beaver has deemed that 2.8 miles is just tooooo muuuuuucccccchhhh for her to drive. SD has to ride home from school with GWR and GWR has been banned by Beaver from driving to our house with SD to pick up her stuff. That's right folks...Beaver banned GWR from going to you know HIS FATHER'S HOUSE. ****take a moment to let that one sink in*****
Now..SD is forced to put all of her stuff in her back pack to take to school...she looked like a sherpa going up Everest with the amount of stuff she has to pack. Plus, she has all her electronics in there...lets hope the back pack doesn't get stolen.
And the piece de resitance....she has to rely on GWR, who is neither reliable nor cares a hoot for SD.
Lets all give Beaver our vote for MOTHER OF THE YEAR.
Let me just say this..I had a similar situation with my bio kids. Their dad lives in a very good city with a school district that is number 2 in the state and in the top 25 in the nation. No way was I ever going to take them out of that school district. The district was amazing in their support for DS and his aspergers.
So on my weeks I drove 15 miles in rush hour traffice to get the kids to school. Turned around and drove 15 miles back to my office. Repeat in the afternoon. I did this for YEARS, DD wasn't even in kindergarden when I divorced, DS was in like 2nd grade.
On Fridays when my kids switched we left a little bit early and they would drop off their stuff at their dads house if they were going to his house. If I was picking up for my week, we stopped at their dads on the way home after school so they could pick up their stuff. Did I want to go to my ex's..the Village Idiot's house..NO not at all. I did it with a smile though...because it was for my kids. It made my kids transitions easier and that was my ultimate goal. Their transition/education was more important than my 5 minutes of discomfort or my 1 hour long drives to get them to and from school.
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Reading off the script
HCGUBM shall not be inconvenienced in the slightest nor made to drive more than 5 minutes to work or anything else.
Girhippo Chapter 4 Verse 27
Where did I miss this handbook
not that I all the upset. My kids are well adjusted functioning individuals.
Gihippo and Beaver would be besties I think.
Sounds like this is Beaver's
Sounds like this is Beaver's passive aggressive way of punishing SD for narcing on her brother and putting him in a bad light with the school. Beaver is a real piece of sh*t!
This brings back memories for
This brings back memories for me. 50 shades has never (and I repeat never) made a pick up or drop off. My DH has done it all for years. Also, SS was never allowed to ride in the car with SD. So, if SD had her car and was going back to 50 shades' house, DH still had to drive SS in a separate car and follow her home. The craziest shite you have ever heard. However, SD could drive SS around to other places just not our house.
Exactly
The HCGUBM considers it a privilege for father to see his children and completely under her discretion.
How in the h3ll do they justify this mess
...like what...the vortex of h3ll opens up at the Dad's house....I don't get it.
Annnnnnd
although the HCGUBM does not give one Whit about her children, she acts as though said children are an extension / attached to her body.
What if SD refuses to being
What if SD refuses to being all her stuff to school? That's embarrassing for her I would imagine. 2.8 miles away and she can't grab her?!? Pathetic.
BM actually did the pick up and drop offs when she use to take them (EOWE) She would pick them up Friday when she got out of work (she would be driving by our house partically anyways on her way home) Then she would drop the boys at school Monday morning and SD at home. (She was in elemantray still)
God forbid one of them left their backpacks at our house and they would realize it less then a mile away.. she wouldn't come back to the house. They would have to stop at the house Monday am or if they had homework we would just drop the bag off. She's 10 minutes away.
Same verse here..
WE thought about SD just leaving her stuff here..but all the would happen is SD would not have her laptop, etc for remote school. So we would either have an entire week of SD doing no school or DH would have to drive it all over to Beaver's house. Although we may actually do that since it will bug the ever loving SH*T out of Beaver if we grace her beaver dam layer.
good forbid the skids left anything at our house or at hers. Unless we dropped it off or picked it...they skids would not have it at Beavers. One winter SD went without a coat because Beaver couldn't be arsed to drive and get it. It wasn't "her" problem..SD was all of 7 at the time..with ADHD to boot. Forgetfullness was/is her middle name.
I don't remember if you ever
I don't remember if you ever said how far beaver lives from you but, if it really isn't an inconvenience to drop SDs stuff off to her I would just do that instead of her lugging everything to school. I feel bad for your SD in that way.
Plus if it annoys beaver maybe she will start just picking her up at your house?
Its actually not close for us its about 12 miles give or take
and you have to travel on the worst road as far as traffic. However, DH and I just talked about it that is what we will do. It will p*ss off Beaver.
DH said he told SD he would do that but she thinks Beaver will get mad at her if he does. Dh is still just going to do that so she doesn't have to look like a sherpa all damn day. They don't have lockers so she is lugging all this crap to each class.
Yeah beaver... get mad at
Yeah beaver... get mad at your kid because you're too lazy to pick her up down the road and she has to struggle all day at school with extra stuff.
The drive in between houses doesn't sound the best.
The drive sucks and
yea what kind of logic is that. Get mad at the kid because they don't want to drag a load of crap all day and Dad offers to drop it off so your big beaver rear doesn't have to go any further than needed.
Also, if school is closer
Also, if school is closer can you meet SD outside of school and give her her stuff when she gets out instead of driving to the dam?
Self-centered
I'm sure I'm not telling you anything new but she is so self-centered. At least our BM would do drop-offs. The second they got out of school on Friday, ZOOM, over here. She barely slowed down to let them off. I kept expecting her to shove them out the door as she sped by. Lol.
Ha..when she drops SD off next Friday
the car barely slows down and SD is out of it. At some point I expect SD to be doing a tuck and roll out of the door in our lawn as Beaver speeds away in her Kia.
Yep self centered...and yet she still cannot fathom why DH left her. Things that make you go hmmm....
BM didn't refuse to do
BM didn't refuse to do pickups/dropoffs, or any other driving to activities, but definitely manipulated logistics so she would make the least effort possible.
It backfired on her, though, because the kids got tired of her unreliability, and noticed how much more driving DH and I did than BM. Especially given how few responsibilities and time commitments she had, compared to us.