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Working from home - SD drama from afar

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Submitted by Simpleton21 on Fri, 04/03/2020 - 8:35am

I have been working from home and my DH was terminated just prior to all the coronavirus closures.  Anyways, he is up my BUTT, like worse than the children so I haven't had a chance to be on steptalk much.  I can't risk him finding these blogs and being all upset even though I have told him all of these things about his precious and BM already!  Today I am working from the office briefly.  It is nice because I am the only one here and my office is peaceful and quite! Smile

Okay, now to my newest SD incident.  Just prior to the lockdown here DH's niece stayed the night with SD at BM's house.  Even though BM can't stand SIL she still invites SD's cousin over all the time.  Well you all...this is one heck of an incident and for once not involving a traumatic injury. I can't even make this crap up!

DH gets a call from SIL saying she found a dildo in niece's drawer and niece broke down and told her that she got it from SD's drawer.  She saw it when she was getting a hair tie from SD's drawer and took it to show SIL.  SIL sends a text picture of the big pink vibrator to DH.  DH sends it to BM and tells BM what is going on how niece is saying she took it from SD.  Keep in mind SD is 12 (almost 13) and niece is 14.  DH is freaking out wondering how these girls got this vibrator.  No response from BM.  DH texts her again asking if she confronted SD about it.  BM responds something like this "OMG, I'm speechless, that is mine.  Gross!  SD went to great lengths to find it, I had it hid in the bottom of my file cabinet in my room"......guys I can't even make this stuff up!  WTF!?!?  First of all GROSS and 2nd why did she feel the need to tell DH where SD found it?!?!  YUCK!!!! 

In typical SD style she threw her cousin under the bus said that her cousin probably took it to use with her boyfriend that she had been sending nude selfies to all night!  Mmmmkay....well I think there is more to this story and obviously SD stole it before niece stole it.  So much WTF and gross!

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Submitted by Simpleton21 on Fri, 04/03/2020 - 8:50am

Yep, I like how DH is all horrified and can't believe it....um hello....SD has been overly sexual since at least age 7.  This is why I predict she will be pregnant by 15 and it won't be her fault of course...she is so innocent!

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Submitted by advice.only2 on Fri, 04/03/2020 - 8:58am

I think I threw up in my mouth a little.  Who knows maybe BM is covering for SD and SD stole that used from somebody else,  There is not enough sanitizer in the world for that poor pink dildo! 

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Submitted by Simpleton21 on Fri, 04/03/2020 - 9:02am

True, BM and SD are all kinds of messed up!  Oh and BM was like, "just throw it away"....like no shit....ha!  Maybe BM is mourning the loss of her poor pink dildo!

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Submitted by hereiam on Fri, 04/03/2020 - 9:06am

BM was like, "just throw it away"

Gee, ya think?

Why would anyone want to even touch someone else's vibrator/dildo? Disgusting.

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Submitted by Simpleton21 on Fri, 04/03/2020 - 9:08am

Exactly but especially your own mom's vibrator!!!!  I don't even want to think about my mother having anything like that and never thought of it when I was younger, let alone go searching for it and stealing it!  Bad

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Fri, 04/03/2020 - 9:15am

I remember as a teenager I was in my mom's night stand looking for something (can't even remember what at this point) and found hers! I DIED. I am still dead thinking about it!! LMAO

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Submitted by Simpleton21 on Fri, 04/03/2020 - 9:22am

Exactly, gross, and I'm guessing you didn't steal it!!!!  DH acted like she might not know what it is!!!  WTF!?!? Really!?!?! Come ON!

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Fri, 04/03/2020 - 9:30am

Nope, left the house and didn't admit to a soul what I found for like at least 10 years! Then a little tipsy, hanging with my mom one night on her back porch I let it out! She spit her wine! She was as mortified as I was even 10 years later! LMAO

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Fri, 04/03/2020 - 8:58am

I can understand BM justifying where she kept it. I mean she didn't want anyone to think she just leaves her toys hanging out on her nightstand as a display. 

As for SD's behavior- GROSS!!!! Like, I can't even... I am so disgusted. Hopefully she wasn't using it. 

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Submitted by Simpleton21 on Fri, 04/03/2020 - 9:04am

Eh, I still think it was TMI, DH wasn't accusing her of anything or leaving a dildo out.  Hell he didn't even know it was BM's until she responded saying it was!  I guess it made her feel better?!? LOL

I know, that was my thought also, did SD use it and then her cousin used it too!?!? NASTY!!!!

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Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Fri, 04/03/2020 - 9:51am

Ermagawd! Simpleton, I'm sorry but I'm also laughing ONLY because this reminded me of a scene from the movie Parenthood...

https://youtu.be/gh-r-BjOfKg

Tell your DH to go clean something while you're working. Sheesh.

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Submitted by Simpleton21 on Fri, 04/03/2020 - 9:59am

OMG, that is hilarious!!!!  Thanks for that Aniki! 

I will give my DH a little bit of credit on cleaning.  He has been doing the dishes and he has even done some laundry!  This quarentine is just to much time together!!!  I need space!!!!

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Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Fri, 04/03/2020 - 10:19am

You're welcome! We all need to keep laughing. Smile

Yay!!! That's great that he's doing those things. Maybe he should take up knitting. In the woods....lol

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Submitted by Simpleton21 on Fri, 04/03/2020 - 10:29am

LMAO, well we do have some nice woods behind our house, he probably should go explore them Wink

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Submitted by thinkthrice on Fri, 04/03/2020 - 9:54am

that SD has got herself an American Eagle credit card and is buying more than outfits.

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Submitted by Simpleton21 on Fri, 04/03/2020 - 10:01am

Ha, well maybe she stole more than the $20 from BM the week before and purchased it off Craig's list Wink Anything is possible.  Lord knows that we will never get the truth from BM and SD.  They both lie and manipulate as much as they breath.

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Submitted by Winterglow on Fri, 04/03/2020 - 10:36am

And maybe bm just left her Amazon account open on her computer one day... If she has Prime then it would only have been a click away...

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Submitted by Simpleton21 on Fri, 04/03/2020 - 10:43am

That is another interesting theory.  I really wish that I knew the WHOLE story but I know I won't!

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Submitted by notarelative on Fri, 04/03/2020 - 10:00am

SO needs to distance himself from the drama that he cannot control. He should have told SIL to call BM directly about the incident.There was no reason for him to be involved.

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Submitted by Simpleton21 on Fri, 04/03/2020 - 10:03am

I think you have an excellent point.  If SIL is dumb enough to let her daughter stay the night at BM's house then she should deal with the consequences and deal with this stuff directly with BM.  I think the last time that SD and niece hung out they got caught watching porn.  SIL is trashy and full of drama herself so I'm not surprised that she had to inform DH about it instead of going directly to the source.