Ok so I know this is so freaking minor, but when Toxic Troll signed the receipt for last spousal support she reached up and touched DH's hair, said oh i like your hair,

DH is blessed with gorgeous jet black hair and no wrinkles because, Filipino. And hes in his 50's. 

I want to draw blood. Seriously I am wanting to kill this b!tch, but Munchkin.

Luckily Dh told her to back off, then talked about it to munchin, how she violated boundaries.

AND I JUST heard about this, Frick.

Edited to add:

Upon reflection, I believe that Toxic Troll's intended target was me. I think that all along, she has been wanting to p!ss me off when she can, cause problems and issues when she can. Because when DH tells her "no" to her inane requests (can I borrow your truck to haul furniture, can you bring me your old pool table...) he tells her "no, because it will make Clove upset" or "no, it is detrimental to my marriage, helping the ex out". So he looks like a nice guy.

She figured he would tell me she was stroking his hair, I would get jealous, go ballsitic, an evening of arguments and toxic reactions.

I kept my cool, and really lavished on the compliments "great job in your response to her! You enforced your boundaries - and in front of Munchkin SD13." said this about 3-4 times. I only spewed vitrol on this board. None of it came to the surface with him. 

Im just wondering what to do next. Its obvious, now especially, that she is enjoying the control she has over him (I can ALWAYS up the child support!) and effect on me (your husband once belonged to ME, I have TWO CHILDREN with him, you have exactly NONE, You will NEVER have the great love we shared once... I love it when I hear that you are upset because Im yanking on his chain...kibbles!)

Thanks all.