Me and my husband have been married for about 16 months now. We've been together 4 years. He has a son who's 4. I think he was about 4 months old when we met. When his ex found out we were together she stopped access to his son. He went to court twice to get access and I stood by him every single step of the way. Fast forward 3 years and we're married and I'm pregnant. When his demon child comes over I start staying in bed until he goes home or I spend all the time in my bedroom. he only has to mention his name and I feel like throwing up in my mouth. I, however have addressed this situation with my husband and told him I actually hate his child. I make no secret that he's a little brat and how much he annoys me. The first 3 years we were together I tolerated him and made an effort, an effort I wouldn't even make with my own kids. I have 2 girls now 12 and 8. They were 8 and 4 when we first met. About 2 years after we met, we'd moved in together and he would take my girls to and from school and lookafter then while I was at work (his offering) one day out of the blue he texts me and tells me how much my kids annoy him. He even sent me screenshots of this forum. I was stupid enough to work with him. I admit my kids were a tad annoying. My youngest had a love relationship with food and was constantly asking for food. Which I worked hard to change her. I only worked with him because he would look after the girls when I was in work. My children are not perfect but they know respect and manners. They know how things should be treated and how people should be treated. His runt has no form of manners, discipline or respect.  Me and my husband have regular arguments because when his child is here I run to the bedroom and avoid him as much as possible. He's always ill, coughing, sneezing and spluttering everywhere. Never covers his mouth and never washes his hands. He's fowl and disgusting. We have him 2 nights a week and those 2 nights a week I want to leave my husband because I cannot tolerate his child. His ex gf is always asking for favours from my husband regarding their son. And I always and okay 'why do you do her favours? When she made you go to court twice?' She has never disciplined her child. She only feeds him shit food. His diet consists of chocolate, sweets, chicken nugget and chips. And my husband had the cheek to bitch about my child who would eat too much healthy food. She never gets his hair cut, he often looks like a tramp. He's always covered in snot and dirt and then he tried to touch my baby! Eww, no! Those court periods were really hard for us and took a toll on our relationship. We broke up a few times. I hate his child so much I really don't know how to move forward as a family. He knows I dislike him and when he's here I make sure my husband takes hin out and away from me.