So YSS is half moved in to the other room and OSSs stuff is sitting in boxes ready to be put out once YSS has fully cleaned out of his old room. I asked DH when that would be happening because YSS did minimal cleaning, the vacuum is abandoned in his old room, and his new room is already turning into a sty and there's barely anything in there. I also informed DH I expect it to all get cleaned soon. There are things that were mine from my house that went into their rooms and I am appalled and upset by how ill-used it is and how little care they took of things in their rooms.

DH said he would do it and that he was sorry the skids were such slobs. I told DH that while those are the skids rooms, it's his fault. All these years he's said he'd handle them and check on their cleaning. He was in charge and he let it get to this state. Told him I am upset about it and with him. The state of their rooms is all on him. Now it will be clean to my standards and I will be doing the checking and enforcing.

He made some statements about DSs room being a mess. I said, yes it was, and that I get that kids have their space/room and there's a certain amount of mess. Mess is one thing, filthy with ants, musty dog blankets, and old food is a whole different thing. I made DS clean his room much more than DH made the skids clean their rooms and to a cleaner level. Yet, DH swore up and down that he checked things and it was done well. BS