Basically I would like to ask all of you guys if we are handling this situation too harshly.... I just worry about the right decisions for the skids. 

Summary of previous blog: skids come wed-wed. BM wants them to come Friday - Friday (actually she didn’t even offer DH make up time right away) as they have summer camp that picks them up and drops them off to and from her house. 

So Dh contacted the camp and they said they could change the address Thursday and Friday but for half the day Wednesday it would be a headache. DH emailed BM and told her this. 

She went ballistic. Saying that the skids SS13 and SS11 were riding to and from camp with their little sister. And would little sister be coming to DHs house as well? (Bahahahahaha). About 5 minutes later, another email saying the camp called her and can’t change the address because it would mess up everyone’s drop off times. 

Well DH called the camp to ask if he could just drive the kids himself. No he could not because BM was lying about drop off times being screwed up. She had phoned the camp and told them DH wasn’t allowed to have the children. DH asked if he could bring in his court order and they said no. They said BM signed them up, she needs to approve you. 

So he told her as much. And said if you want the kids to go to camp Thursday and Friday then you need to either change the address back or at least approve me to drive. I will pick them up from your house on Wednesday what time do you expect them?

He gets some crazy ass email back going on about how he’s doing this last minute when this has been set up since May (she only told him like 2 days ago). She’s still waiting on half the money for camp (ummmm). And she’s still waiting on child support for 41 consecutive months. (Mind you he pays through fro, and they just went through court ... pretty sure someone would have called him on it by now if the payments weren’t going through). So please be kind and let the kids have their week at camp and celebrate their little sisters birthday. 

Advice? 

I’m thinking he should repeat his last email “you want them to go to camp Thursday and Friday please authorize me with the camp. I will be picking the boys up Wednesday after camp. What time do you expect them?” 

Or even simpler “what time do except the children home from camp on Wednesday? I will be there to pick them up”

The camp ends at 430 so I guess he could just be there for 430 and wait. 

Just sucks, if he gives in to her she will keep pulling this shit. This is the 3rd week in a row that she’s pulled something on his time (he let her the other two times). 

But if he holds his ground, then she may not authorize him and the kids won’t get to go to camp. Unless he picks up and drops off at her house ... which would be a nightmare.