I haven't posted in awhile so here it is. Everything has gone back to normal and my anxiety isn't as bad as it was because OSS isn't wreaking havoc right now since he went back to BM's. DH and I had our first appointment yesterday with the psychologist and it was as I expected. He said that he can't change OSS and that he is just like BM. The psychologist asked him how it made him feel to hear me say all these horrible things about his son and he said that it didn't bother him. The psychologist also asked him if it bothered him to hear the things that I was saying about him and he told her no that it was my problem that I felt that way. She also asked him if he was coming to see her just because of me or if he was coming to see her because he wanted to work on the marriage. He said that he was coming because he cared and wanted to work on our marriage. We have another appointment in two weeks so we will see if it makes any progress.