So DH and I went to therapy last night and he brought up the fact that OSS cussed out a teacher. After he was done telling the psychologist what happened I told her I have no idea why he is telling you about this situation when he doesn't discipline or follow through with consequences for his kid. The psychologist asked DH if there was something that he was willing to work on and he said yes. I will believe it when I see it though. I told the psychologist that talking to OSS does nothing I feel like some other action needs to be taken so that OSS knows there is consequences for his actions. DH agreed that if OSS is being disrespectful or does something wrong that we will both sit down and talk about it then come up with a solution together. If something happens at BM's house of course then that is up to her. BM told the teacher when she called her that it was mine and DH's fault that OSS was acting out. That is what the teacher told DH when she called him to tell him what happened with OSS. LOL!!!!