Crazy BM?
DH and I take our dog for a walk everyday same place, same time. Is it a coincidence that BM happens to be there with her kids 2 days in a row, at the same time? Even though there are 3 parks closer to her home? All that are newer and more kid friendly? I do get that now she’s a single mom, and maybe going out is not feasible. Also, SD was with her and all our kids get along... so they may be driving it too. But given that she gave SD printed pictures of her and DH canoodling, and has recently dropped off something of DHs she kept from their divorce 15 years ago, it turns my creep meter on. I’d really just prefer not to see her. Maybe we need to get more creative as to where we walk the dog.
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Yikes! Our main grocery store
Yikes! Our main grocery store is the same as BM's and I've seen her a few times. Not face to face, thank goodness, but I've seen her coming and going. My heart rate instantly rises and my body enters panic/ flight mode.
I bet it's even worse for our husbands! How awkward to run into someone you used to have sex with and now hate because she ruined his life.. Maybe it's more normal for them to see her because of the kids.
There's no such thing as a
There's no such thing as a coincidence. Listen to your creep meter and try to find some where else to walk the dogs if you're not comfortable with running into her.
"But given that she gave SD printed pictures of her and DH canoodling, and has recently dropped off something of DHs she kept from their divorce 15 years ago"
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Does your SD live with you guys? Why would BM feel the need to give her a picture like that and something from so many years ago.........BM needs to let it go and move on!
Sounds familiar: https://www
Sounds familiar: https://www.steptalk.org/blog/jcksjj/bm-weirdo-pt-2-252400
It could be a coincidence but I remember pulling that crap as a teenager when I wasnt over my first serious boyfriend and would just happen to show up where he was or go in areas where he was likely to be. Even then I wouldnt have been so obvious as to do it 2 days in a row though lol. So I generally assume that since these BMs are crazy and still act like teens alot of the time it probably was on purpose. Probably thinks DH will go aww I wish I was at the park with my kids or something or that shes showing him what a great mom she is.
You have a point, I make him
You have a point, I make him walk daily with me, and she’s sitting down eating junk food with her kids... He might just be tempted if he wasn’t so creeped out.
Maybe she is taking her own
Maybe she is taking her own dogs - ehm skids - for a walk?
Once may be coincidence, twice is a pattern.
My DH would definitely want
My DH would definitely want to walk the dog somewhere else, he can't stand being near BM. We prefer several highway miles and a river in between her and us.
BM once called...
...our house - looking for SSs - from the grocery store closest to our house. The weird thing is that she lives about 15 miles away from our house, so no reason for her to be there. I was creeped out, especially since we have never given her our landline phone number. I don't speak with BM due to her craziness.