I don't hinkle you're an ass. I just think if he wants fair ground then he shouldn't have asked you to remove kids artwork just to put his daughters pic by the bed.

I think your DH meant no harm though. He seemed genuinely interested in not showing any favoritism to any of the kids.

Maybe no pics of kids directly beside the bed in the future. I would find it weird if I were having sex and all that's looking at me is a pic of one of the kids lol.

I hope I’m not too out of line.... but I wouldn’t like it at all near our bed or in our room.  I would honestly be thinking about how he created SKID and it would gross me out, Lol. 

Obviously, it's your call and if you are uncomfortable in your own bedroom, you have to let him know.

I don't personally see the big deal, I'm not sure it would bother me.

I'm not a "picture" person.  Probably because we were too poor when I was growing up to ever have a camera - much less to have enough money to have pics taken or to pay for film, developing and framing.  It just wasn't something that I grew up with.

SS and the GF gave DH a picture of themselves a few years ago.  I found it tucked under a seat in the car.  He never brought it in the house.  And that was before I banished them.  Not sure whatever happened to that picture but I promise that I did not toss it.  We no longer have that car.

I guess it was 2 years ago that they gave DH a picture of their child.  It's a horrible picture.  Not really a reflection on the baby (he was about 1), but it just isn't a good picture.  It's on DH's nightstand.  TBH it doesn't bother me at all.  DH recently brought home a picture of his grandmother in a frame.  No problem for me at all.

You’re comparing something he just did to something he said 4 years ago when you started dating. They have absolutely no connection.

If you have an issue with the kid's picture address it now but don’t dig up something so far gone he’s not even going to remember.

No, you’re not an ass. There’s no way DH and I would be doing the horizontal tango with a 5x7 of skid next to our bed. Ewww. 

OMG I can so relate. EVERY room in our house is filled with pictures of SD23 and SD19. My daughter, 12 has ONE picture from school on our mantle, and ONE where she is with the SDs. SD23 has probably 10 pictures adorning the walls, table tops and mantle and DW’s little darling, SD19 is in probably, no joke 25 pictures all over the house. DW is obsessed with this girl, and everywhere I look, there she is!  Bedroom, living room, dining room, hallways, etc etc.  It’s such a joke!  I even have said a few times, “don’t you think you go a little overboard with the pictures of her?” To which I just get venom.  

Frankly I feel as it’s living in the past (when DW was a happy little family woth her rich hubby and little kids that she coddled and doted on (and still does)) and keeps trying to convince me that they are MY kids so why wouldn’t I want their pictures all over. No, they aren’t my kids and I certainly don’t want SD19. Lol. I have one child, and she is relegated to two pictures!

Dh tried a few times with Toxic Feral Eldest - put her framed kid photo on the bedside table on his side. I promptly put it somewhere else. 

I personally feel like kids photos dont belong somewhere that you have sex.

Just recently, after Toxic Feral went on a lie-filled rant, I took even those down. Dont want to see her face right now.

my house when he moved in.  I'm not a person for wall photos either.   I can  proudly say there's not one photo of the PASed out mini-Girhippos anywhere in my house other than in a non-descript box on the 2nd floor of the deattached garage.