BM2 was here to visit SS13 the first week of December. Apparently this meant to her that, not only did she buy SS's Christmas presents but, to buy and write out Christmas cards to FIL and MIL, SS33 and all of his children and SD31 and her son.

Cue Christmas morning. There are 4 cards sitting on top of the fireplace mantle. I had no idea who they were from as I didn't recognize the handwriting. FIL and MIL were sitting in the room so I handed them their card. Open it up and it's from BM2, written from her something along the lines of "Hope you have a wonderful Christmas Mum and Pops! Love always, BM2". FIL curled up his lips at that and the card went missing a few moments later.

Perhaps she forgot the tiny little detail of FIL not talking to her now for 10 years because the night she called out another man's name in bed on DH, she called FIL and tried to convince him that DH was going to physically harm her. DH would never ever touch a woman like that. Needless to say, it didn't go down well with FIL and he has not and will not ever forgive her.

Anywho, back to the cards. Gave SS13 his card as it was from his mother and the only appropriate card that should've been written. The remaining cards for SS33 and SD31 sat on the mantle as they weren't with us over the Christmas holiday.

Right or wrong, I took those cards off the mantle yesterday. I opened them up and BM2 signed each one to DH's kids plus all of their kids and wrote "Love, BM2 (Nanny Cyprus). Uhhhh these children don't even know her. They have maybe met her once in their whole lives. She doesn't write to them, call them, ask about them, nothing.

Those cards have been tossed in the garbage. If DH asked where they went, I will have no clue. I'm tired of this crazy woman and her inability/refusal to let go and find her own life. She cheated, she left, she filed for divorce and constantly plays game 10 years down the line. She doesn't get to send Christmas cards claiming love and status of family that she doesn't have.