It has been a very busy week since I last was even able to get on the site, work has kept me quite busy and home as well.

DW is doing well with SD26 not being allowed at our home, there have two visits with her outside of the house in neutral places and no complaints from DW, either she is totally onboard or she is keeping her comments to herself.

We also got some unexpected news, our landlord has decided to do something different with the property ( he won’t say what ) and has given us till Dec. 1st to move out, so now we are frantically trying to find somewhere to go that doesn’t upset the children much or ourselves.  We are looking both at buying a home and other rentals.  Moving on short notice sucks big time and GSD8 is having a tough time with it.

The one good thing about it is that SD20 won’t be going with us and I had nothing to do with that decision, DW simply told her that we were moving and she had to find somewhere else to go, so GO DW !!!! 

DW and GSD8 had it out the other night ( GSD has some behavioral issues ) DW told her that if she didn’t like our rules and was going to continue treating us poorly then DW would call DSS and tell them that GSD8 wanted to go to a foster home, that DW was tired of children treating her with no respect and no appreciation!  Again, “ GO DW !!!! “  GSD8 of course completely backed down when the foster family was mentioned, she is getting counseling at school but she just started that so we don’t expect results overnight, like I said that poor kid has a bag full of cats in her head from all she has been through.

I know this is a brief update but that’s it in a nutshell, I’ll try to keep updating our situation as it unfolds but the good news is that DW seems to be on the same page with me again, it took me exploding but if that what it takes from time to time so be it.  Of course with the move the problem of adult skids will be severely reduced, I know they can still cause issues outside of the home but not having them under my roof will be a great improvement.