SO...BM doesn't have the money to take DH back to court (but they have the money to fly to CA...whatev) but she wants MORE money so she can dictate where dh money is going.  Remember...no dh is allowed to have another life after BM, all his resources and time must be spent on ss, because HOW DARE YOU be happy after her! (yes, that is sarcasm)

Anyways, since dh is not picking up ss wearing rags and shaking a cup of change, she is doing everything in her power to get him to the point where all he can do is work and see ss, therefore having no time for me.  Her latest plan of attack?

Doctor appointments. 

Since dh is forced by the courts to carry ss on his health insurance, she brings ss to the doctor for EVERYTHING.

Court order states they both have 50/50 legal for ss, but she never consults dh on anything medical. They are also supposed to split the bills 60% dh 40% bm.  She refuses to pay.

Prior Blog-

 BM has told dh about two appointments.  They were for a wart on ss toe.  Dh said they could buy something over the counter for it and denied the need for the second appointment.  BM went anyway, we didn't know until we got the bills in the mail.

Current-

Since then, BM has brough ss to the doctor FOUR more times in less than a month.  The other four appointments she never told DH anything.  The only reason we know, once again, is dh gets the bills and they have been steadily arriving.

He now owes over $600 because he hasn't met his deductible. This isn't even including the dental bill.  DH never goes to the doctor, this is all from ss.

The latest plan? BM brought ss to the dentist last weekend for a cleaning.  Monday visitation rolls around and she calls dh with the "didn't ss tell you?" line.  She says the dentist told her that ss10.5 is going to need braces.

SS does not have any difficulty chewing, his teeth don't hurt, he has a very slight overbite and a microscopic gap between one of his molars.  This is purely cosmetic on BM part.  BM told dh she is taking ss to get braces weather he agrees or not and since it is his insurance, dh can pay for it. Dh can call the dental office and refuse the treatment, but she can just as easily bring ss somewhere else.

Now here is where things get odd: at the bottom of EACH bill, dh employer stated: "we can not give you the final total on this bill because we show there is another healthcare plan for this dependant".  BM told the courts that her employer didn't offer health insurance.  That is the whole reason they ordered dh to pay for it and carry ss on his plan.  So...did BM lie and she DOES have insurance for ss, but isn't using it?  I thought you couldn't have state healthcare if you had proof that your employer offered coverage?  Since dh is covering ss, how can ss have another healthcare plan? And the dental bill says nothing about a "second plan", but it is a much older bill...