Two weeks ago: SS7 tells BM (because she lets him think he is her equal and has the authority to tell her no) that he’s not going with her for her weekend. BM blames DH. She rages on the phone with him later and tells him that the only way he will get any of “her” time is when a judge tells her she has to....

Last week: Bm is telling her other kids stepmom not to bring Spawn around us or my BS even though we see them and they play together when he’s with BM there at least once a week at tball practice for SS7. 

Today: BM emails dh AND ME telling us she’s schedule a beach trip and wants SS early so she isn’t driving late....THEN says she’s will allow SS7 to come to my bio’s birthday party in exchange. 

What would you do? I told dh we need to talk about it later tonight because I’m actually pissed. I WANT to send back “1. Stop emailing me about your custody issues; it’s between you and him and 2. Stop trying to use my son as a bargaining chip in your manipulation scheme to get what you want!” But really how can she threaten court and tell him to never ask for “her” time then weeks later it’s “I need you to do this for me”