Oh Bananaseedo - when will HCBM's ever stop their shit? That is the ultimate question, kind of like how many licks does it take to get to the center of a tootsie roll pop.......the world may never know! 

I cant see what BM here has on her facebook, we have eachother mutually blocked, but she has one account that is her maiden name, she went back to that name after the divorce, and another facebook account that has her married (to my FH) name. She comments on past posts, or shares "memories". Since FH and I have her blocked she will sometimes (after a few beers) start sending FH texts of photos from years ago, of their "family" with captions like best day of my life, or remember this night, etc. 

I know she's doing it to cause problems and upset me, it ususally does, but I don't let her know that. Hang in there!!

Good times! Be very thankful your SD is mature and wise enough not to feed her mother's nonsense. My SD, starting at age 12, was repeatedly brining old pictures to my house that BM had randomly given her. 

I'm extremely grateful that my skids' BM doesn't really know how to use the interwebs, so I don't have to deal with social media stupidity.

While I am not threatented by the BM in my situation, I would be irritated if she posted things like this.  Look, everyone knows they were together at some point and if she wants to send copies of these pictures to her daughter for her own use.. no reason to post them in a semi public facebook way.  It's like the post that my DH's BM posted about the separation "not my choice".. it was unnecessary and honestly she needs to move on after 20 years amiright?  She was just as much to blame for the split and while I don't hold my DH harmless as he has his aggravating qualities.. I know her level of crazy antics were a huge factor too.

I would just ignore and actually most people will see it as pathetic.. so feel sorry for her..lol.

I can never understand these women who approach an ex who has moved on with someone else. Why set yourself up for embarrassment like that?

I always wonder why people feel that it's ok to be totally inappropriate over posting pics, reminiscing, etc, just because you had a child with someone. Would she be posting pics of her high school boyfriend if she didn't have a child with that person? I don't ever post (nor do I think I even have) pics with old boyfriends in them. It's so odd to me that people think that dead romantic relationships should live on just because the couple had a child. Yes, those two people will always be joined to one another as parents of a child, but that doesn't mean they will always be romantically joined. It's not as if children only arise in relationships that are worthy of reminiscing about...if that were true, there would be no divorce and no stepmoms!

When people post stuff like this it is because they have nothing good going on in their lives. They look to the past for some kind of happy feeling. She comes across as a sad human being.

Block BM and be thankful that SD knows the truth.

There are some people who will do ANYTHING for attention and drama. SMH

Ew.... I saw some pictures of DH and Bm once.... FIL literally set them on fire (he's probably one of my faavorite people. LMAO, MIL going off about how we shoud have those in our house hanging up for the girls, then he just grabs them, takes them outside, and lights them up...) Or the one I found while cleaning out storage, I didn't want to deal with it, I literally just threw it aside and continued on, told DH to "take care of it."

I do remember Bm trying to tell the girls about how Dh and her used to "cuddle all the time." SD9 told me: "I know it's a lie, she liked throwing things at him and yelling." (poor kid witnessed a lot of crap she shouldn't have had to...) That pissed me off. 

I'll never understand their need to cause s*** like that... 

I love this stuff. BM here has a collage of photos from when the boys were born. Some of the photos include DH. Mind you, she has SEVERAL pictures already of just her and the boys on the collage, but keeps the ones with DH, too. Oh, and it hangs in her living room. Where her DH sees it. Daily.

Last year, she called DH around what would have been their wedding anniversary to tell DH what year it would have been and reminiscing about their marriage. DH quickly ended the call.

BM occasionally sends some of Dh's possessions that she stole when she followed the court order to move out of the house. She took his pictures from before they ever met, letters, some momentos from his relatives.  Everything! She also took everything in the house including the Fridge and the dishwasher, even though Dh got full custody and she got no visitation because of her outrageous behavior.  She left him an empty house to raise his very young children in.

Now she "finds" things of Dh's and sends them back through her now adult son, who somehow hasn't asked himself what she is doing with this stuff in the first place.  It bothers me more than DH, who just wants to ignore it.

It never ends.

For the record-I don't think she will ever be "past" that sh*t. 

When BM got wind that SO and BM2 were no longer together, we had just started hanging out (we have been friends for a long time). She started sending SO pictures of herself saying things like "Not bad for 2 kids". And sending texts about how SS12 who was 7 at the time asks her "if his daddy loves her". 

BARF. 

THEN to make things even better, I just found out when Big Daddy (SS's little brother's father, whom SO is friends with) slept with BM1 when he and his GF were broken up (Big Daddy and GF are now back together). But BM1 was with her current boyfriend of over 6 months durring that time, so sometimes, these women never get over it. 

Why do they do this? BM used to post pics of DH all the time and talk about him on FB. Like she wants everyone to believe they are best friends. 

BM posted a family picture, her, DH, skids, her sister and BIL, her Mom and stepdad for Father’s Day. 

I found it odd that she wouldn’t post a picture of just her and her stepdad but rather a big old family picture. 

Who knows what these crazy BMs think.

It bugged me a bit but I actually like seeing pics of DH when he was younger. 

 “She mentioned something in another post about him being her first love.”

Thats funny. DH the skids and I were talking about love, first love, stuff like that. SD said yeah BM was talking about how you two were first loves and what that means. Without missing a beat DH said yeah, first love is nice but real long lasting love like notsobad and I have is much better. 

Both SD and SS looked a little shocked then SS said, I hope mom finds what you guys have, she needs something.