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I need an IT person to answer. Is he cheating??

TheBrightSide's picture

I just checked my husband's IPAD. I notice that he always clears the history.

Today I looked at settings: Safari: then databases.

I noticed two databases: among others

both were for online dating sites.

they say

used: 20KB
Max size 5: MB

Does this mean he has an account with these sites, or does it mean he just searched them?

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MarriedaBallessWonder's picture

I'm not an IT person either..... but google his e-mail address. I did this when I thought my oldest step-son was up to some hanky panky on gay sites. It worked. I found him on several sites including yahoo singles. At the time he was only 16. He found away around it though by making new email accounts. But, it's worth a try.

Pinki3663's picture

I would say this isn't solid proof of anything. If he clears his history 100% of the time, I would ask him why. Porn is usually the reason, especially if he knows you will not approve of his porn viewing habits. Then again he could say porn to cover what he is really doing as well..so it is touch and go.

I do not have an Ipad and tried to look up what the "database" thing is all about. Seems to be a feature that holds the websites info for quick login at a later time. That could mean he has a login or that he has simply stumbled across the website and the browser automatically does this.

Sorry I couldn't have been of more help

TheBrightSide's picture

He probably set up an email account that I don't know. I looked at his email today. Nothing.

MarriedaBallessWonder's picture

Perhaps he is not doing anything wrong.

I know I on my Ipad I used to delete the history because it would keep my email open. My Stepshits could read my mail.

I do not care for the Ipad.

misSTEP's picture

Just for S&G, I checked my Safari settings. I have had mine for over 2 years. Nope, no online dating site databases on it.

Whether he is cheating or not, does it matter? He treats you like dog crap either way. That would be one good explanation of why.

lexie12's picture

Just ask your husband if he is on dating sites. And if he clears his history all the time, for sure he is hiding something. And that would be he is on dating sites or more. But better to ask him first why he is clearing his history, you judge depend what his answer will be. Hope this helps!

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