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mommyof1girl1boyangel's picture

if you are a member on any other family group sites, it WILL be used against you.

just fyi

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mommyof1girl1boyangel's picture

there are people on this site, that are also on other sites, if they figure out who you are and on the same site, they will throw it back in yourface on the other groups.

yes, this has happened to me. dunno the user name on this site. but it actually happened with my last post TODAY

RedWingsFan's picture

Guess it's good that I don't belong/post to any other site but this one and a chinchilla forum (but my names are different at both).

RedWingsFan's picture

LMAO nope - I LOVE my chinnies. WAY more than I could ever love a stepchild (unless said stepchild was like my DD anyway)...

mommyof1girl1boyangel's picture

my names are different too.

hell, i even reset my account complete with new address and completely different name. the shit i posted when in my nightmare situation is being thrown back at me completly. the poster said they are not active here, but they do read posts

idk admin(s) maybe a new rule can be set to either be active, or account delete?

JValaThorne's picture

it happens all the time...
just let it roll of your back

becareful what you post, and if it makes you feel better delete your post after a few days

RedWingsFan's picture

That sucks. Not sure how something on an internet forum can be used against you if you don't post any REAL names, but I suppose a good lawyer can make something happen.

Hope things work out for you!

Starla's picture

"idk admin(s) maybe a new rule can be set to either be active, or account delete?" Great idea!!! Smile

mommyof1girl1boyangel's picture

no, it's either step mom central or bio mom step mom debate drama-they LOVE throwing shit back in your face.

mommyof1girl1boyangel's picture

this place didn't used to be nice. it used to be HATE HATE HATE HATE step life, and as long as you hated your life as a stepparent, you would fit in.

the members on here used to (maybe they still do) call their skids swear names, etc. i'll admit I had a step hell life. but those days are long over with. the poster in here decided to throw that back at me in the other group and well, SO FAR no one else has responded or posted off of that.

however, another fair warning I have seen. make SURE you guys log out if you are on a family computer. one step mom didn't she left the screen on this site. teenage step daughter found it, read every single post and showed her dad. they were separated that week.

RedWingsFan's picture

Well, it does say "Where stepparents come to VENT" so generally, when you're venting about something, you're not happy...

I found this site by googling "I hate my boyfriend's daughter". I do call her a bitchy, whiny, selfish, drama queen, stepdevil, because she's EARNED those titles. I've done nothing but be nice to her and got shit on over and over again.

So yeah, a happy steplife isn't why any of us are here!

mommyof1girl1boyangel's picture

haha! my step life is only "tamed" because I left the douche bag xh. as far as the kids go, I genuinely miss them (over all they were good kids, just their parents SUCKED). now, xh's adult daughter-THAT is another ball game. she moved in (and I had warning from here) and that night I was like OOOOOO shit! they are right!

:jawdrop: imagine that!?

Onefootout's picture

Shaking, that is one big happy pill. I want whatever you're taking! My SO would fall in love with me all over again. Wink

mommyof1girl1boyangel's picture

you guys are funny as hell.

I can say the REASON i'm on here is because my life used to suck like hell. but I have also had experience from both sides (i'm bm AND smom).

long story short I used to be the bitch bm.............I have since grown (and he left the then smom) }:)

oncechoosetosmile's picture

I once tried out another group , but they were all like mother theresa!! Wanted the skids to sleep in the bedrooms with the parents and needed everybody to do the lovey-dovey thing.Ha! Didn't fit in Smile