Another shitty weekend at home due to all the crap I have to deal with resulting from BF (and I use the term loosely at this point) constantly indulging his kids.
Heres the most recent WTF?! situation:
My BD turned 18 in April,graduated HS in May and moved out in June.She is going to school to be a vet tech and working 2 jobs.
Since BF and I have been together (almost 3 yrs) he has promised her he will provide her with a car,not a new car,but one that he will get for cheap and fix up.Hes very good at mechanics so we beleived him.
As of a year and a half ago he had 'traded' for a few vehicles in succession,each of which he told her he would just have to do this this and this to and then she would have a car/truck.They are all still sitting in our front yard or his parents back lot.
A few months ago he purchased a small car (I think its a Datsun Z?) that he said would be for my daughter.Its a stick,my daughter cant drive a stick and he knows this.He said she needs to have her fiance teach her,fiance doesnt want to teach her.BF has always said he would make sure our daughters would know how to drive a stick.
His daughter just turned 16,she just got her license last week.Yesterday he traded a 5th wheel to his friend for a little Bronco for HIS daughter.Yes it runs,and its an automatic.
So here in our yard sits a car my daughter cant use while his precious angel gets a great ready-to-go vehicle.
Oh and my daughter lives about an hour from us where they get several feet of snow in winter which is fast approching.Where we live we will MAYBE get a few inches amd it melts away fast.So my kid will be driving a car that will not be safe in snow and his daughter gets the one thats better for snow.Huh.
Just FYI,neither myself nor my daughter ever asked him to provide a vehicle,he made those promises.He has also been saying for years now that they are not 'your kids' or 'my kids',they are 'our kids' and everything is equal.
We have hardly ever even brought it up cause when we do he just gets pissy as he doesnt like to be pressured,altho he has no problem making promises and then just sort of not doing anything to make them happen.Except when it comes to his kid of course.
Im not going to even tell my daughter about this because she will be hurt.But she will find out cause his daughter will get on FB and brag about it like she does everything else.I know this is going to make my kid feel like she is obviously not and never has been a priority.
Why doesnt my daughter get priority as she has been promised longer,lives where it snows and has a job as well as college?Why cant he just teach his precious angel to drive a stick and give her the little car?
It really sucks ass when WE as women are pushed aside for spoiled skids and their demands,whats way worse is when OUR kids are made to feel like shit because he just has to indulge his perfect,entited,spoiled brats.