She almost made it a year.
I guess when DH went to pick up my BD from school BM was their to pick up their kids because it was her week with them. Apparntly she told DH she needed to talk with him about some changes going on over at her house when he had some time. DH asked her what was up and she told him that she's kicking her husband of almost a year out and she wants a divorce.
Some back history here:
BM stalked DH for the first year that we were together. (By stalking I mean going as far as sitting outside of the house at 3 am amongst many other things.)
She met some guy that got out of prosion last April. Moved him into her house and married him four months later. (Needless to say, I really didn't think it was going to last very long and apparently I was right.)
I'm worried that she's going to start all of her crazy sh!t again. The stalking, effing with the kids to cause issues in our house, and trying to break DH and I up. She's already told DH's mother (a couple of years ago) that DH is the love of her life.
Anybody else been through this? What should I expect? Is the same crap going to start again?
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I hope she doesn't go back to
I hope she doesn't go back to her old ways...
But unstable is unstable. Our BM is currently preoccupied with other stuff going on in her life. However, I'm not delusional in thinking that means that when she has "free time" she won't go back to harassing us. Like bethl22 said, prepare for the worst.
That's what I'm planning. I
That's what I'm planning. I was hoping this would work out. Even thought this guy was two time convicted felon she actually became a better parent and left us alone for the most part.
I feel for this kids. They need a stable enviornment which they have pretty much not gotten from her. I really hope that she doesn't start to eff with SD again. She was telling her things like mommy and daddy are going to get married again, if Unhappy and daddy don't get along mommy and daddy are going to get married again, and mommy's sad because mommy and daddy aren't married anymore. (Really b!tch. You wanted the divorce.) As you can imagine SD was not very kind to me throughout all of that and it caused a lot of emotional issues for SD who was still (and still is) healing from the divorce.
Unfortunately I agree with
Unfortunately I agree with beth. My DH's ex is working on her third marriage she knew this one for less than 6 months before moving him in and getting a marriage lic. She wasn't even divorced from her second husband before she go the lic so they had to come to our state to get it because she was legally married in hers. A little history on this; 1st Marriage (my DH) she accused him of cheating and beating her and moved out while he was at work without telling him what was going on. The truth is that she stole his retirement, maxed out all of their cc's, and left him with a house that was going into foreclosure. She knew her time was running out before he caught on (she did all the finances) so she made up some fabricated story about how he beat the crap out of her all the time and called his BFF to let him know that she was moving out. (A witness) She continued to try to sleep with my husband, stalked him, etc. She then met her second husband, same name, same job as my DH when they were married, Last name started with the same letter, and they married 3 days from the anniversary of her and my husband. Her 2nd ex told us that she stalked us on FB through my SS's account, and her kids told us that they would drive by the house that her and DH used to live in every time they were in the area. She accused him of cheating and beating her as well all false. As soon as she was having issues with her 2nd DH she would call my husband wanting him to come over and spend the night (we were together long before this point) she would make an excuse up regarding the kids. Of course he never did but she kept trying. She then met her third soon to be husband, name still starts with a J. They are getting married on my DH and I's wedding date in Sept. She's a crazy bitch. It's been almost 10 yrs since their divorce and she continues to try to get in my DH's pants then will completely deny it. Whenever she thinks we are fighting (if her crazy daughter tells her we are) she will be very sweet and try to console him. It's sick. He just tells her to fuck off. Thankfully we live in two different states now.
DH said that he has the tools
DH said that he has the tools now (thanks to me) to deal with her if she starts her crazy sh!t again.
The thing is that this lady has effed with my BD when she was in kindergarten. The first time I met her was on the first day of school after DH and I had moved in. We talked for about 10 minutes which half of it was spent with her talking about how she wanted to help me out by picking my BD up from school and taking her over to her house and watching her until I got off of work. She wasn't working at he time because she had gotten fiered for stealing. (She didn't know that I knew that she as actively trying to break DH and I up and stalking him. Apparently she thought that they were having a secret relationship where DH wouldn't tell me anything about it.) When I got home from work I told DH all about it and told him that she's not done yet. About an hour after that she called DH wanting to talk with me. DH asked her what it was about and she said she wanted to pick my BD up from school and take her out to lunch. (Now other then all of the BS stalking I've only met this chick once for 10 minutes. She's a stranger. Who the hell would let a stranger take their kid?) DH told her no and then she freaked out about how it's not fair that I get to spend time with her kids and she can't spend time with mine. (Can we say crazy. On what planet does the ex wife hang out with the new GF's kid?) So the following school day she made it a point to go down to the school after I had dropped my BD off and approach her on the playground. The little girl that lives next door watched her do this and then heard her asking my BD if she wanted to come over to her house to play.
THIS LADY IS NUTS.
I can't help but wonder what
I can't help but wonder what will happen when the day comes when bm2's boyfriend dumps her. She is 100% dependent on him and the child support from DH and her other son's father. I remember before she got with her boyfriend she constantly harassed my inlaws telling them that DH needed to take care of her. *gag* but that was before she had DH's phone number. Now that she has it again I'm sure the sh!t will hit the fan the minute her boyfriend leaves her. I just pray he leaves her after we leave town for good.