Is this possible??????

So for the last over three years I have had the same number. I changed my carrier last year over to verizon but kept the number. I have had no problems responding via text to my ex's request to see his BD.

Monday my ex sends a text wanting to see her on Wednesday and Thursday of this week. I respond back with a that's fine please let me know if your mother is dropping her off since I will be at work still. No response. I respond a couple of hours later with the same request. No response.

Tuesday I get another text asking if he can see her tomorrow. I respond with I already told you yes and let me know if your mother is going to dropping her off or I'll just have DH pick her up at the same time he normally does. No response.

Wednesday I get a text about every three hours asking if he can see BD tomorrow. I responded everytime letting him know that he can and to let me know how BD is getting home or DH will be picking her up.

I spoke with one of our IT people today and he told me that as long as it shows that the texts have gone through on my end he should be receiving them. He though that maybe he blocked me. So I called him to check and see if I had been blocked and I'm not. He didn't answer and it went to his voicemail.

I even went as far as to send him a text from my email letting him know that he can see her today but I need to know how she is getting home and got no response. We've never had this issue before and we both have the same carrier. Obviously this isn't happening with his friends or else he would have let me know in one of the requests that he is having problems receiving texts and may not get my response. It can't just be from my phone. I never have any problems sending or receiving texts from any of my friends and family and I just got the phone around four months ago. Plus this has never been an issue.

I think that he is setting the grounds for filing contempt charges on me for witholding visitation by claiming that I'm not responding to his requests to see BD. Maybe I'm just being a little paranoid but I think that's what he is doing.

Can anybody offer any advise or clarification on this? What do you guys think is going on?

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My husband had this exact

My husband had this exact problem with his phone. There was something wrong with the memory card and he had to get a new phone.

An easy way to test this is

An easy way to test this is to text back and forth with someone else and see if they can get everything you're sending.

Been doing that all day with

Been doing that all day with DH. In fact I've been doing it all week with DH and a couple of friends.

I have a Razr and I have had

I have a Razr and I have had this problem too. It shows as sent but I don't get anything back as far as responses go. It got so bad that I texted FDH who was in the same room as me & he never got the texts...or better yet, he would respond & I would never get it. Depended on my phone's mood I guess.

With my phone, I was told that it was a "software" issue & they replaced my brand new phone with a refurbished one...but there were loads of other issues with the phone too & the texting was most certainly not the only one.

All you can do is make sure that you keep your texts & emails to show that you did indeed respond. If he's acting that crazy (resending, etc), I'd say that if this isn't normal, that he mustn't have received it, but to stay safe, do keep copies of everything.

How did your X respond when you told him you had texted back?

Oh...I'm with Verizon too.

I had that problem for a

I had that problem for a while, where I was texting people and they weren't getting them. But it was just texts, not email and phone. My phone got a system update and it hasn't happened since. I think it was that I couldn't talk to i-phones.

I can assure you that there

I can assure you that there is no problem with my phone. I can send and receive texts with everybody in my contacts. Apparently it's only his phone that can send a text to me but not receive a text back from me or an email text. He pretty much can't receive anything that I send but not from other people.

Can you send him an actual

Can you send him an actual email from a computer, I am just thinking paper trail and could he respond from a computer.

I don't have an email address

I don't have an email address for him. It was like pulling teeth just to get a physical address from him so that I can send him copies of dentist and doctors bills. I literally had to tell him that he would be in contempt of the CO if I didn't get that info.

Oh well then, lock all your

Oh well then, lock all your text so they don't get deleted and if comes to light remind him if you had an actual email address for him this could have been solved with ease

I have been texting with DH

I have been texting with DH all day with no problems. He hasn't even responded to my email text. But he must be receiving texts from all of his friends or else he would have gotten it fixed. So it's just my phone that he's claiming to not have received the text from.

Plus I spoke to his mother last night and I guess she talked to him and he told her that he hadn't gotten any of my texts. So she told him to text what time she would be dropping BD off at to me but all he sent was the same thing. Can I see BD tomorrow.

I don't think it's your

I don't think it's your phone, then, I think it's his and he doesn't know it / hasn't realized it yet.

Keep every single text in

Keep every single text in that group where he texted you and you texted back. You can go to verizon website and print off the phones usage so it shows your phone texting outgoing to his phone number to correlate to each text you show. It won't show the text contents (which is why you have to keep all those texts saved on your phone), but it will prove for certain that they were sent.

Then he can look like an ass for pretending and lying.

Then he can look like an ass

Then he can look like an ass for pretending and lying

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That's what I think he's doing. Pretending and lying.

We started photographing all

We started photographing all text from Wacjob a few months ago. He used to have notebooks upon notebooks of written with time and dates etc. But the skids found them and gave them to her. So now we take pics of them and save them in a file in the computer and on a flash drive Make sure to get the "from" number in the photo and the date and time. Some of her longer texts take more than one photo.

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