Timeshare
My husband had purchased a timeshare with his ex-wife 9 years ago. This morning he found out from his bitch ex-wife that his name is still on the contract they signed and that he can still be paying for it. My husband had asked her why hasn't she come to him regarding making arrangements to sign a new contract taking his name off and she said I quote "I enjoy using it, I just have no money to pay for it" which means he's still paying for something he hasn't used in over 9 years. Note: I don't know how he realized this crap NOW after 9 years or why he didn't take care of it sooner. We also have FULL custody of his 10 year old daughter, Bitch-face does not pay child support, ever! Picks daughter up when ever is convenient for her and if she does want SD(10) for a few weeks is to use her as a baby sitter for her other 2 year old daughter with her now boyfriend, Plus to make things even worse she claims SD(10) every other year on her tax returns!
I'm livid! I'm pissed off at my husband for not being more assertive and not taking care of this a long time ago when going through the divorce. Who doesn't know they are paying for something for that amount of time? I sometimes wonder if my husband even has a brain! I'm even more pissed at HER for being such a conniving Bitch. We are not made out of money, even though she likes to think so. I will not sit here and tolerate her bull-crap! He said he was going to take care of it tonight and if she doesn't comply she will not be claiming SD!10) on her tax returns this year or ever because he will instead use that money to pay for her f**king timeshare that's $1000 dollars every 2 years!! He better do so or so help me god!
Have any of you dealt with this type of situation? If so, what can I do to help my husband? How can we approach this legally? What should I tell my husband for him to take some action, or should I just not get in the middle of it and let him take care of it on his own?
Need advise, Please help! 
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How was he continuing to pay
How was he continuing to pay for it having no idea he was still paying for it...or did I misread?
If he purchased it with her, why would it be anymore her responsibility to see that he was taken off of it than his own?
I would expect BM to take advantage of anything she could. I just assume she would. I would also expect my DH to take the lead on seeing that his financial obligations are in order.
IMO, he's the one to hold accountable.
I am confused as to how he's
I am confused as to how he's been paying for this for 9 years without knowing it.
I would not be letting him take care of it himself, for obvious reasons.
If DH has full custody and BM doesn't pay CS, why is she claiming SD on tax returns?
He bought a time share with
He bought a time share with his ex.. and he forgot about it? He thought his name was not on it anymore?
I'm not sure you can just take your name off of a contract that you signed. I'm pretty sure he would have had to sign something else relinquishing his claim to the property. I could be wrong. I'm not sure what state you are in.
This is what Dave Ramsey would call a stupid tax. Not taking care of your business means you get to pay for it later. That sucks!!
I know you blame your spouse's ex wife bc she's taking advantage of the situation. BUT your spouse has put himself in this situation. You should really be mad at him.
He's legally bound to pay for this expense.
Sucks bc you are dealing with this crap!
If she refuses to cooperate,
If she refuses to cooperate, you really need to consult a lawyer. Hubs had something like this happen and it is still dragging on because hubs refuses to sue his ex.
That's my problem, My husband
That's my problem, My husband doesn't want to sue her because he feels it will hurt his 10 year old daughter at the end....whatever i say f**k the bitch have her pay!
If he's agreed to continue
If he's agreed to continue paying for the timeshare up until now (which he obviously has because he's been making payments), I don't see how he would have grounds to go back & sue her now for any kind of reimbursement.
Maybe I mis-read, but you
Maybe I mis-read, but you have full custody but don't always claim SD on your taxes?
That's crazy!
That's What I say. The ex
That's What I say. The ex keeps SD(10) during the week when school is out and she takes SD(10) to different outings like Disneyland, Alabama, Miami (note: Some of these trips are to visit ex's family. According to my husband he doesn't see anything wrong with having ex claim SD(10) every other year on her taxes since she does all these "wonderful things" with SD(10)
While we have her during the school year, take her to visit family, have her an OUR health insurance, Pay for doctor appts, food, clothing, school supplies, etc... I guess we don't need the $1200 ex claims every other year since I guess "we don't do as much"...
I'm so over it sometimes, I just don't get it. I will have to wait until SD(10) finally turns 18 that way I never have to deal with the lights of ex ever again nor SD(10) if she chooses to be with her low life mother.